my boy friend of 5 years just told me that he cheated on me and he said she has chancroid what is this?

Question

he said that he has burning when he pees and itchy tingly sensation in his genetal areas i noticed a red boil like blister about 1/8 th of an inch on his penus that was when he told me that he cheated we always use protection but i am really scared. i went to the doctor already i am waiting for the results to cme back in two weeks.

Answer 1

And now you know why people call it "cheating," I suppose. The fact is, with all the nasty diseases going around, even a condom is not 100%, and it pays to be more-or-less monogamous (i.e., or stay within your "small circle of friends," if that's what you need) to avoid passing stuff around.

So at the very least he has agreed to pay all your doctor bills and go with you to the doctor's office, and take care of you, and is properly contrite, etc., right?

If not, I think you better re-think having sex with this guy again. It's not just the "promise not to do it again" you need, which can be broken whenever a person feels breaking a promise is worth the guilt trip. It's got to be a mutual understanding of what you really want out of this relationship. I think it is fair to say that one of the things you do NOT want is contagious diseases!