I've had this huge crush on this guy for several months, and he's been the topic of my other two questions. I've been debating on whether to tell him or not that I like him, even though I'm pretty sure he knows and he hasn't made any moves. The other night, I asked outloud, to anyone out there, to give me a sign. I asked whether I should give up and find a new guy or stick to this one and tell him soon.
The next day I went with my mom to the highschool where she works for a schoolwide internation luncheon. While helping set up, I met this nice junior (I'm a soph). We seemed to connect and I enjoyed talking to him. He kinda followed me around a bit during the luncheon, and I got the feeling he liked me. I don't feel any attraction, though I think he'd be a great friend. Also, I've heard he's bi-polar and not a great guy to date because he has a nasty temper.
I'm not really asking about him. Just, is this the sign that I need to move on from my current crush?
2007-01-25 16:20:10 · 13 answers · asked by the_blue_violinist 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to clarify, the Junior told me himself that he's bi-polar, and my mom taught him once and mentioned the bad temper to me.
2007-01-25 16:32:31 · update #1
Yes it is. Move on.
2007-01-25 16:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jodi C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be friends with someone but be careful who you get involved with. Meeting the other guy may not always be a sign, because there are plenty of guys out there and it is part of the human race for men and women to be attracted to each other. If the guy you are dreaming about knows you exist and he is met to be with you then you will get together with him. You have plenty of options you just don't realize it. Take your time and make friends with different people. Have a great day. Good luck and pray always
2007-01-26 00:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by stephanie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u have to find out if this guy is really like that; cuz who knows maybe they're jus rumors n he's a great guy and u guys can hit it off. Well with the crush; u know what just tell him if u hav the guts and if hes like oh..and doesnt do nothin bout it. then f' him..u gotta move on and find other guys..therres plenty fish in the water girl.
2007-01-26 00:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by ayounglady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just feel that it would be a pity if you decide to move on without even asking. Who knows, your crush might have the same feelings for you but he just can't express himself. Give yourself a shot at him. Who knows? Things might just work out and even if you get rejected, i think you will feel better rather than bottling your feelings up. As for your junior, do take some time to get to know him better first. All the hearsays might be trur or might just be out of jealousy from certain people. Make the judgement yourself.
2007-01-26 00:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by Maximillian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. This Junior we are talking about probably feels the same way about you as you do about your crush. Careful not to lead him on.
The other guy..... dont ask him if he is interested in you straight out. Use a hey I am going to the movies this weekend to see (Recent blockbuster) ya wanna go.
It has worked for me before.
2007-01-26 00:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by stormie a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if a guy does not notice you then he is not intrested but if he like flashs you a smile then i would definatly stick with him because he is giving you a sign
2007-01-26 00:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by breanna h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sometimes guys juss tend to mess around but sometimes were serious maybe he isnt ready for a girl
i suggest u move on
2007-01-26 00:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should just tell the guy u like that u want to be with him and if not ur going to regret it trust me on this one.
2007-01-26 00:27:29 · answer #8 · answered by Smiley17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time for you to focus on your education. It seems like you think you have to have a boyfriend to complete you. You're not ready for a boyfriend if you don't know the answer to these kinds of questions.
2007-01-26 00:25:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should tell him before u move on. if he doenst like u after u tell him then move on. good luck
2007-01-26 00:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah
2007-01-26 00:25:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋