There's this guy at my gym, he's actuaaly a trainer there, and my problem, is the fact that I don't know if he's flirting with me or not.For instance, around christmas, he came up to me and asked me how my holidays and I told him it was okay, then he asked me, who did I spend it with.And then there was another occasion where he came up to me and told me I looked sad, and wanted to see me smile, and as I was leaving asked me when will I be back.I'm thinking , well maybe he's just being friendly, but he's always telling me to text message him for trainer sessions, and i told him several times, I'm a broke *** college student, and I cannot afford them, but then he's still asking me to told me to call him on his cell phone for a free session, and he told me not to worry about it...and so i told him I would let him know but he will text me, and tell me that he wants to hook me up, and money is no problem, so I booked the free session, but my question is why is he being so pushy
2007-01-25 16:18:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And then yesterday..he comes up to me and chat a litle bit, and then at the end of the conversation, Itold him well I gotta get going, and he asks me "How come everytime I see you you're leaving'" and adds"I'm not ruining your experience here at the gym" I'm thinking hmmm intresting
2007-01-25 16:19:17 · update #1
He has told me in the past that if I called him and wanted to hang out ..he would like too...and he told me that he found me to be very attractive...I guess :(
2007-01-25 16:32:35 · update #2
He's always asking me when will I be back....and he asked me for my tranining session did I want to get in the pool..
2007-01-25 16:34:54 · update #3
Sales! He may also be trying to get in your pants, since most girls/women who go to a gym are usually kinda hot. Either way, he's trying to sell you something, ya know?
2007-01-25 16:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that he has some feelings toward you. On another hand, let's not forget his position as a trainer. It's his 'job' to take care of people who use the gym and keep them happy so the public come back for more. He also looks after himself, because by talking to you and showing that he cares got him the three sessions with you. I am not saying he doesn't care about you but just to keep business side business. You may try some scenerio to differentiate a person's response that shows more biz or more affection. I hope this helps.
2007-01-26 00:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by FotoNerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept the free training session and see what happens, you wont know much more till you do that.... while doing your free session ask him if he is interested in getting a drink sometime... stop being so passive and be aggressive so you can answer your question on your own :)
2007-01-26 00:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's fishing.The question is for a girl friend or a new client. My question to you is ,what are YOU interested in?
Perhaps it's better if you both just lay your cards on the table. Maybe then you'll know how to proceed.
2007-01-26 00:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
interesting.. luks like the guy is interested..
1. if u like him.. play along talk longer.
2. if u don't like him.. ask straightway if he likes you or not or ignore him when he approaches you.
3. if u don't care then just be courteous but don't get involved in conversation.
2007-01-26 00:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by masku darling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he's hinting at wanting to get to know you better at the very least . . .
2007-01-26 00:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes trying to spent time with you, without trying to be so hard. he wants you to go to those free lessons cause he wants to see you, and so you txt him so he can ask you to hang out out of school
2007-01-26 00:26:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you. If you're interested, go for it. What do you have to lose? Good luck!
2007-01-26 00:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WO!! you got yourself an admirer!!
A very very pushy kinda admirer!!.^_^
2007-01-26 00:27:04 · answer #9 · answered by Romeo (The Original) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's very interested in you.....but be careful though, he might have other motives..... just be cautious.
2007-01-26 00:24:54 · answer #10 · answered by littlemunkay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋