Great date on Sat nite - He calls Sun & talks about future plans & seems really into me - he also calls Mon - then he returns a text message on Tue - then nothing Wed & Thur - is he just not interested any more? if he was - wouldn't he call?
2007-01-25 16:14:10 · 7 answers · asked by Lindsey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for all the great responses & I'd welcome even more -- just as an update...I called yesterday, but (blush) didn't leave a message when his voicemail picked up. :) Just didn't want to seem like I was bugging him, lol.
2007-01-25 16:25:33 · update #1
(Though I'm sure he saw I called - it was his cell.)
2007-01-25 17:15:59 · update #2
Guys like to feel like you're into them too. Maybe he's just tired of initiating all the talking and was just waiting for you to call. If you're interested in him, why not give him a call and show it. Don't just leave it up to him.
2007-01-25 16:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by HotC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that he called the day after the date says he is into you. You don't want someone who feels this complusive need to talk to you everyday when you are still getting to know each other. You want to be able to have your freedom, and the chance to think about him. That is part of the fun. It hasn't even been a week. I am sure by at least early next week you will have heard from him.
2007-01-26 00:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't want to seem to overbearing? Not sure. I'd give it a few more days- if you don't hear from him, then I'd not even concern myself with him in the future. However, if he calls and apologizes for not calling for whatever reason- then it's up to you.
I'd say it's too soon- I'd give it one more week.
Good luck
2007-01-26 00:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by TRAC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe since he's the one that has initiated so many other forms of contact...he's waiting for YOU to pick up the phone.
They really do work both ways...if you punch in his number, it will ring on his end...LOL
2007-01-26 00:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thinks you aren't interested because you didn't call him. don't wait for him to call you. take the initiative. carpe diem.
2007-01-26 00:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is waiting for you to take some iniative~!~!
2007-01-26 00:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by Vani R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it seems he's laying low, like most guys, idk maybe he is
2007-01-26 00:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by beezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋