How does a woman decide who she wants to make love with? Please understand I am not asking this question in hopes of getting any "tips" from it. I am happliy married and just wanting to know.
2007-01-25 16:00:38 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ABSOLUTELY!!! Women are affected by lust too! Each woman has her own idea of the perfect looking man (or whom she finds attractive), and once she gets to know him (talking, kissing, etc) she usually knows pretty quickly (the chemistry thing) whether or not she wants to get to know him better....if you know what I mean:-)
Just to note--I am a married woman, and have never, and would never cheat on my husband.
2007-01-25 16:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by educationmajor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, even if I'm not a woman, what a woman does is they talk with men a little. Get to know them. Looks don't count, although it is a barrier for some men & women. Women choose who to make love with by knowing who they really are. If they are charming to them, then the women will consider doing so. That's my opinion anyway. And, just for the record, I'm not gay. Thank you for thinking I'm not.
2007-01-25 16:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's a bit of a strange question.
I am also married but that is not a question that I would think of while I was "married". Unless your having thoughts of adultery or that your significant other is having sex or thoughts of sex with another person. And if that's the situation then you guys need to have SERIOUS chat with one another.
But no I never just look at someone and think oh they look soo good, I want to have sex with them..
2007-01-25 16:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by msheatherd28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm totally in love. I might notice an attractive guy... but since I've been with my man the only person I imagine sleeping with is him, and that's the truth. I enjoy sex because of my emotional attachment to him just as much as the physical. He makes me feel like the only woman in the world... my mind doesn't feel the need to wander into sexual scenarios with other men, because I'm completely satisfied; and because I know he's satisfied.
2007-01-25 16:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by Katrina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I've seen a guy and thought "Wow, he'd be a great lay!" or "I'd love to have sex with him." A woman is more likely to decide she wants to have sex with someone at a glance as opposed to wanting to make love to him. They are both very different things!
2007-01-25 16:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by acyissej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think primitively speaking that a woman has to think "I would like to have sex with him" even if she doesn't know it. It goes back to the dawn of man. Certain features are attractive and trigger our brains to think about mating. If we are attracted to someone, we might think... Hmmm... he's cute. Wonder if he's available? We are ultimately thinking... Hmmm... I could possibly have sex with him at some point? After that I think it's up to personality and chemistry. Of course... I am only speaking generally. I know there are some women who think... Hmmm... I'll hit that and then an hour later... they do.
2007-01-25 16:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by mmhhhhhmmm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll be honest with you. i am happily married to my high school sweetheart. and when i see i good looking guy, yes i do fantasize of how it would be. there is a difference between having sex, and making love. i fantasize about the sex part. but i would never go out to that guy and tell him, even if we were to become friends i don't think i would ever tell about a fantasy.
But when a woman decides to actually make love with this guy she will be guided by her heart
2007-01-25 16:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by .:peAchy:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course women want to have sex with hot, good looking guys. Is that a realistic happening for most of us common women?....NO! We usually end up taking what the good Lord gives us and looking for the beauty inside.
2007-01-25 16:06:41 · answer #8 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly honey, I am young, but I have never had sexual thoughts about any guy until I met my current boyfriend, and he's the one I want to be with for the rest of my life, but even with him. I am a virgin, he's a virgin and we both respect the fact that we both want to wait until marriage. We're both Christians and that's what God commands us to do. Because I am a virgin my thoughts about men go that he is attractive, and nothing else. After Pandora's box is open, then thoughts like that creep into your mind all the time.
2007-01-25 16:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look some women just like a good man who can make them feel like someone loves them. but some all they want to do is have sex, so u kind of never know, all women are different, 4 example me, if i see a hot guy, first i would try to get to know him, but its all up to them.
2007-01-25 16:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by like oh my god! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋