2007-01-25 15:55:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The biggest thng is u must gte out of your head the voice that says "he's a boy!!"
U must try talking normally wid him.I know it's better said then done...but u can do it if u try it some times
2007-01-25 16:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is no way to completely overcome shyness about talking to a girl/ boy that we like. I'm very shy too. We're just either scared of the outcome or what the person will think of you. I think all you do is ask them out and it's all good from there, but there's more to it than that. I dunno... just can't find myself being able to ask her out. I don't even know if I'll be good enough for her. I'm sure that's what I'm scared of. Maybe she'll say no, but, like I said, I don't know how to overcome shyness. Maybe put all your might into walking up to them and asking them...
2007-01-25 16:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the best thing to do is just be yourself because whether the person is going to like you or not is based on you being yourself. If they are worth it they will understand the shyness and wait until you get more comfortable and less shy around them.
2007-01-25 16:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't act like it's a person you really like. That just puts extra pressure on you. Be nice, talkative, and ask them questions about themselves. If it's one thing people like to do, it's talk about themselves. The conversation should come easy after awhile, and you'll find you really do have things to talk about. Good luck!
2007-01-25 16:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
1.you have to know life is too short to kill your apportunity to talk to someone you like, anyway we re gonna die why afraid?
2.improve your self image, mostly shyness is reflecting your poor selfimage ; you may think I am short ,not pretty enough, or fat so se or she will reject you ,
so do everything to improve your selfimage
I am attractive mentally rich so even if she or he rejects me its not my problem
shyness means you are mentaly paralized , its unhealthy making your life empty
if you dont make our first step who is gonna do for you?
go for it! just do it!
2007-01-25 16:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by earthlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it came to my crush, we started as friends, and finally one day i said "oh **** it..." and just kissed him...were engaged now, so i guess it turned out well, lol. just go for it girl! and if it doesnt turn out, then trust me, you will learn from it so you know what to do next time. try starting by talking about something he is interested in. what kind of music does he listen to? ask him something about homework if your in the same class...sorry, you didnt say what age you were, so im just taking a stab at it. the possibilitys for stuff to talk about are endless!
2007-01-25 16:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me talking is no problem, its the admiting my feelings that always gets me.
Just talk to him/her like you would around your friends. be yourself but be more flirty. The way i started talking to my crush is by "accidentally" Iming him once and after that we just started talking more and more. and then you can let a relationship blossom from there.
2007-01-25 16:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's not shyness, when it cums to talking to ur crush... it's called butterflies, and anyone gets them...it's hard to overcome them b/c ur afraid that u might do sum thing stupid
2007-01-25 16:02:27 · answer #8 · answered by míss índєpєndєnt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't take him/her very special to u. Talk him/her like a normal person. n soon u will overcome your shyness. thanks.
2007-01-25 16:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by aamirm77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was really shy when i asked my girlfriend out but she said it was cute so just be yourself and it never hurts just to be happy around them lol
2007-01-25 16:02:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋