see me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time and see the $ex isnt as good as it was when we first got together.
but any way now he cant "perform" as long or cant "perform" at all.
any suggestions??
2007-01-25 15:55:44 · 8 answers · asked by lady_luv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Performance in the bedroom can signal problems in other areas of the relationship. It seems that the relationship has sort of become routine, there is no fun and spontatenity to it anymore. That can happen when you have been together for a long time, but you need to get it back. Try organising a date, and doing something either you have never done, or haven't done in a long time...make sure you have a date night every week and do something interesting and different every time. You might find that putting the fun into it will add spice to the bedroom too.
Mostly though, try talking to him about how he feels. I am sure he would not want it posted on the internet.
2007-01-25 16:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a health problem, or he's not attracted to you physically anymore if he can't "perform" at all. Not sure about not lasting as long though.
2007-01-26 00:01:59 · answer #2 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How often do you have sex? Does he beat his meat? Do you keep it tight? Have you ever just asked him whats going on? Try something new! Be spontaneous
2007-01-26 00:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggestions for what? I don't really understand this question, sorry sweetie.
2007-01-26 00:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be that he's is thinking abt something and that might affect his "performance"..
2007-01-26 00:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by cfrozty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about your concerns.
2007-01-26 00:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAY GOOD-BY
TELL HIM YOU NEED A THAT CAN F*CK YOU LIKE A MAD MAN .
NOT A DEAD MAN
2007-01-26 00:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by HDMOM77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him
2007-01-26 00:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by LuCKyNUmBeRShaDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋