I just found out im pregnant. I'm only 16. My baby's daddy left me and i feel like ill never find love again.
2007-01-25 15:55:19 · 14 answers · asked by godscutie415 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is tough for single moms to find love, but trust me.......there are guys out there that will date you and if they fall in love, they will fall in love with you and your child. Just don't give up the faith
2007-01-25 16:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by forealztho69 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is always someone for somebody and don't think that because of having a child will mess u up. some people may not like that which might make you think that nobody like you.
I know for one thing, i know a person just like you that has a child. She lived in my neighborhood. I had a crush on this girl (which she didn't know at the time. But she moved away and might have still been with her baby-father) I had always wanted to date her. She had a beautiful and cute son.
Don't lose faith and time will tell, when your soulmate or boyfriend will come to you. Just wait and see, somethings take TIME! You are very beautiful!!!
yours truly, EJ942
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2007-01-26 00:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by ej942 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, you will find love again. It might not be as soon as you'd like, but you'll meet a guy that will except you for who you are, despite anything in your past. Just try to get through this hard time in your life, and everything will work out. Be patient, focus on your future baby for now, and it will all work out.
2007-01-26 00:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by JC N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now, worry about finishing school, caring for yourself through the pregnancy, and having a healthy baby. Then, figure out how you are going to raise this child.
The love will come at some point. You owe it to yourself, and the little one, to worry about other stuff right now.
Babies having babies. Good luck.
If I get the best answer, I expect you to name the child after me. lol
2007-01-26 00:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me! You WILL find someone else who loves you for who you are. and it's usually when you're not looking! It sounds like he was just a jerk looking for a good time. He's obviously not a responsible person. whatever you do, Do not hook up with the first guy who comes along. remember, it took both of you to have a baby. first and foremost. take responsibitlity for your baby. Make youself and your baby happy. once you've accomplished that, then bring a guy into your life when you're ready.
2007-01-26 00:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will, but good luck on finding someone around your current age. Most teenage boys are not looking for a ready made family or the responsiblity. You will also be losing the most important years of your life, while most girls your age will be having fun going to Parties, dating boys, you will be a single mom tending to your baby.
2007-01-26 00:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way. same thing happened to me except he left me when i was 8 months pregnant and we were planning a life together and yadayadayada, and i was 19. and i still am. and i am now a single parent. so i feel the same way. but i do know one thing. if i was a guy and i fell in love with someone, i would love them for who they are, not because they have a kid or whatever. i would love their personality and intelligence and everything else that matters, and having a kid does not detract from that. you will find someone and your child will make him even happier. it may not be anytime soon but it will happen. it will be okay.
2007-01-26 00:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you will. You might feel overwhelmed right now, but thats understandable. You're young and have a lot of life to live yet. You will find love again. You do know that you can force him to pay child support don't you?
2007-01-26 00:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never is a long time. You can't give up on love at such an early age. Keep looking,the guy you need is out there somewhere. Good Luck!
2007-01-26 00:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should focus on being a mother. The finding a man will come in time.
2007-01-26 04:25:44 · answer #10 · answered by redeye069 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋