So, I meet this guy. I wanna become friends with him. I kinda got the feeling he was interested in me in "that way." He would look at me like he wanted to EAT me. We end up going out and after the second date he figures out I am not "easy" at all and doesn't ask me out anymore. Basically, he just wanted to get into my pants. So, I see him everyday and we joke around. I offer him help in his work and classes. But we don't hang out anymore and he doesn't ask me to come to their parties anymore. The truth is that I don't know how to act around him. Should I discuss it with him? Help me people
PS: Persistance is the mother of all sins
2007-01-25 15:53:49 · 8 answers · asked by soosool 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes guys and girls can be friends. But if he stopped talking to you when he found out you weren't easy, you cannot be friends with this guy. He obviously didn't respect you from the start, and he doesn't know how to respect women period.
2007-01-25 15:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by Charade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, married, and have quite a few married and single girl friends. No sex, no dates, just friends. We can talk, we hug each other when needed, we laugh and cry together. We are friends. There for each other whenever needed. Why can't guys and girls be friends. It's a little thing called maturity. If an individual is mature enough, no problem. Immature...that's another story. To some it's all in the can I get some. To the remainder, it's I value you as a friend, that's all I want, and I wouldn't jeopardize that by being stupid and trying something inappropriate.
2007-01-26 00:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! yes i have so many guy friends its not even funny! it sounds like this guy that wanted to "get in your pants" is a jerk and you shouldnt wast your time on him. There are much better guys out there that make great bf or just friends!
2007-01-26 00:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by Squeek24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes guys and girls can be "just" friends. If he is truly your friend he will listen to what you say. Try talking to him. He may surprise you.
2007-01-26 00:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jodi C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys and girl can just be “only friends” it just depends on both parts of the relationship, what you think and what he thinks.
2007-01-26 00:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes guys and girls can be friends just give it some time and be a friend to him.
2007-01-26 00:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by marshboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah guys and girls can be friends.
2007-01-26 00:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by TrayLuvsJay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah guys and gals can be friends for the time..before they have sex
2007-01-26 00:09:24 · answer #8 · answered by gladiator o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋