Me and my sons father have been together for 3 yrs.He never wants me to go anywhere.He does'nt go out with his friends all the time but when he does he never calls even when hes gone for hours.When I call him hes rushing off the phone.Hes out with one of his friends tonight when i called i heard a girl and other people in the back ground when i talked to him he I said what you doing he said people were playing a game.Then he said alright bye.It was 10:50 at night I said so when you coming home he said I dont know alright bye then he hung up.So I called him back and asked why he hung up on me he said cause I said cause what he said I'll talk to you when I get home and hung up again I aint no fool.He claims he never cheated on me.But he always accuse me of cheating.Thats another thing he claims when he goes out with his friends he dont know when hes coming home because their driving he always stays out late.We always argue because he thinks i look at other guys is he feeling guilty help?
2007-01-25 15:23:34 · 15 answers · asked by decaturkings 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's possible that he's projecting his own guilt on to you so you look like you're the one to blame. You can tail him or have someone else follow him, like a p.i. You can confront him and try and catch him in a lie. It sounds to me like he's a little too possessive and be careful how you tread at this point. It's been my experience that when a guy I've been dating asks me if I am cheating on him, it's usually because he's got someone waiting in the wings himself. Good luck!
2007-01-25 15:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by Suzanne S. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't come out and say he is cheating but I would keep an eye out. Why doesn't he take you with him, have you asked him or insisted to go? If your child is to young to stay home alone then find someone to watch him for a few hours. There is no reason to rush you off the phone unless he doesn't want his buddies to think that his women is checking up on him. You can always check the cell phone and see who he has spoken to, or look at you cell phone bill and look at the numbers, maybe go see who he is hanging with. If you don't trust him and he doesn't trust you maybe its over and you need to move on. Ask him point blank about the women you heard in the background, it might be that she was a friends girlfriend and she had nothing to do with him.
Good Luck
2007-01-25 23:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by Clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rushing off the fone is not a good sign of cheating, when I am out with my friends i do the same to my girl coz I want to have good time , its anti-social and bad to be on the fone for a long time when you out with friends and people are trying to chat you up, my gal calls and she wants to spend 10 minutes on the fone, Hell NO!!! 1 or 2 minutes at most is aight when i am out. But this thing of accusing you of cheating is a BIG (and its ussually so) sign that he is cheating, when one cheats they think if they can be that weak then the other can also do it. If you have not cheated on him and he is accusing you, then he is cheating!!!!!! If you plan on anything serious like a marriage with him then you should start going out together
2007-01-26 02:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but this looks really suspicious. I'd ask his friends seperatly about this. But they could be covering for him, so look for signs that they are lying, and compare the seperate stories. Confront him if you get any kind of proof. If you find any concrete proof or if you catch him, leave him, he's not worth it.
But be careful about how your son might react.
2007-01-25 23:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by the_blue_violinist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt sound like a very trusting fellow. My answer is YES, he is. As well as drinking a fair bit i think.
Also, i think the reason he always accuses you of cheating is to make it seem like he thinks cheating is REALLY bad and that he would never do it. When really he doesnt think that at all.
2007-01-25 23:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.Kite! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its like he MIGHT be cheating on u or he MIGHT NOT be cheating on u.... This argument can be fought both ways... the best thing is to hire a P.I. and get to the bottom of this.
2007-01-25 23:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by Demonic Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to spend this much time wondering if your man is cheating, then it's time to move on. If your wondering if he is cheating, then right there is a trust issue, which you can NOT build a relationship on. I say move on girlfriend.
2007-01-25 23:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by tamlovinlife2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds as if he IS cheating especially if he continues to accuse you of cheating.........smells like a guilty conscious on his part. I wouldn't trust the schmuck if I were you. Get yourself a trustworthy man with values.
2007-01-25 23:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by Nose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit him down and tell him that u dont like it when he rushes u on te phone and then if he dont stop u know it is time to get a new man
2007-01-25 23:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like he doing just that, and you need to let him know that
you dont appreciate this, time to let him go, and the fact that
he up set with you because he think you are, that why he doing
it, because he the one that out there.
2007-01-25 23:34:40 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋