My bf is kinda afraid to like do anything with me like even kiss because he thinks i will get mad like everytime. He is moving along slowly though. Should i make the move. Do guys like that?
2007-01-25 15:10:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why wouldn't we like that?! it makes our job that much easier...i mean relationship.
2007-01-25 15:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by Google™ me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because girls often think in different levels and try to read into things that are or are not there, guys get confused. Make a move if you want to. Its much better than wasting an evening wishing that he would make one.
2007-01-25 23:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by Tom S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know personally i would think thats great if my girlfriend took the initiative because i never really know what to do. ive known her as a friend for 5 years and have been her boyfriend for the last year, and yet i have only recently become comfortable physically around her(simple things holding hands kissing .etc) this is only because i have been too afraid to ask what she wants. It would be infinitely easier if she just told me what to do.
2007-01-25 23:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by iwll m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the guy know that its okay to move faster. Grab his hand when your walking and smile, so he knows you like that. Maybe if he's droping you off and isn't making the move to kiss you goodnight, grab him by the jacket and give him a big kiss. Maybe later talk to him about it, and ask him if he'd like to move faster or if he doesn't, why?
2007-01-25 23:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by the_blue_violinist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy, but as long as you're careful, he should understand you're wanting to move forward. Just be careful not to try and push him beyond what he's willing to go.
2007-01-25 23:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jeremy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey please...we all make the move...if you think he is moving way to slow you either make the move or if you don't want to drop hints...just don't leave the boy wondering lol
2007-01-25 23:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren_Ann20 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes please do. as a shy guy i would greatly appreciate it if a girl just directed things along.
2007-01-26 14:38:10 · answer #7 · answered by LawDude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋