I am adult living at home with my parents. I used to be and interpreter for the Deaf but now my health problems have lead to short term memory loss. I am in school trying to learn a new trade because I need to support myself but since I am disabled, I cannot work full-time. I thought going back to school for this 9mo course would be the best idea so that I can get my independance back I figured that this would take almost a year, I would get a reasonable job maybe even with benefits. The problem? My parents are sick of looking at me! I have only been here 4mos, and they just want me to get gone. I have 2 options 1. Stick it out 5 more months so i can finish school and then leave (Which would make EVERYBODY happy). 2. Split
2007-01-25 15:00:36 · 15 answers · asked by NolaD 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, just because they want you out, doesn't mean they didn't let you in! Tell them it's only for a few more months. Talk to them and find some sort of solution to your problem. Yes, you are an adult, but they are still your parents and should still be willing to support you to a certain degree until you can gain your independence. The good thing is that you are working for it. It would be an entirely different paragraph here if you were sitting on your butt all day. Don't quit school. Talk to your parents about your worries!
2007-01-25 15:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how bad the situation at home is?
where do you live. some citys have apartment complexes that go by your income in charging rent, look into one.
Is there a city bus where you are. If so that pretty well takes care of transportation.
You have to make the decision.
Maybe you could agree with them on a time schedule to move and stay out of each others hair as much as possible, but still be friendly as possible considering the situation.
It comes down to what you are willing to live with and how important your future is.
maybe you could look into roomates wanted adds.
How about stident financial aid?
2007-01-25 15:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by andreamarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some every person isn't teachers. If i became a guy I in all hazard could have supply up college. there is a lot funds to be made and faculty is uninteresting, stiff, and that i'm no longer an academic. i do no longer think of there is something incorrect with that. considering the fact that i'm a woman, and that i can not make any funds with out practise i'm going to pass to college. ayannada: there is funds to be made the place i'm from. maximum trades adult males make greater funds than people who've masters levels some even greater advantageous than doctorate levels. those are people who dropped out of highschool. . i'm talking entirely approximately the place I"m from. you're needless to say no longer too spectacular.
2016-11-01 07:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stick it out for the 5 months, this way you'll have a little more education under your belt, to make it a little easier on you in the long run. I know it just seems easier to split, but your future is at stake, and it would be to your benefit to rough it out.
2007-01-25 15:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by froggi6106 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick it out 4 the 5 months. They'll miss u when you're gone.
2007-01-25 16:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by TrayLuvsJay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are you able to learn anything if you are suffering from short-term memory loss? Talk to your parents and see what they recommend since they are the ones that your decision will affect.
2007-01-25 15:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by swanser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your parents seem not to want you around it would
be better for you to stick it out and complete school so
you can go and be self dependent. You have a disadvan-
tage as your parents seem not to want to help you so you
have to help yourself: Complete and do well in school so
you can have that opportunity to do for yourself as you
will feel better about yourself afterwards. Be strong and
strive forward with determination and you WILL
succeed. Good luck.
2007-01-25 15:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the are you parents. they are supposed to be there for you in your time of need and they arent. stick it out or see if you can find some other living arrangement with a friend or relative
2007-01-25 15:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in school and finish you're education ,once done you'll be able to support yourself with your degree. if your parents really supported you than they would back you up 100%
2007-01-25 15:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by saphire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take option number 1. Sounds like that woulld get you further ahead.
2007-01-25 15:18:39 · answer #10 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋