I cant go out with my friends yet he goes out once a week with his.
I am tired of fighting with him about everything. He always wins in arguments and throws me out because he is the owner of the house I live in. I have nowhere else to go right now. what should I do?
2007-01-25 14:54:50 · 11 answers · asked by shouldistayorshouldigo? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
go to the women's shelter or the WYCA
2007-01-25 15:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by monetspicasso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay i was in a relationship just like this for about three years!!! You need to relize he is no good for you!!!! A relationship os built on trust not controlling by controlling you slowly in time you will lose who you really are you might love him and that right there is the hard part your love for him will not make him change his ways If he is not willing to change for you then guess what he probably doesnt really love you! I dont mean to so rude but its the truth He sounds really controlling not stubborn big diffrence when he is not letting you live your life then he has all the power!!! Dont waste your life with that life is way to short I hope everything works out okay just stay strong and dont give into him unless he is willing to change his ways
2007-01-25 23:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by tara_tiger83 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that you are having problems.
First of all stay gone when he kicks you out because he will just do it again and again. Go and stay with friends, family, or go to a womens shelter and live your life, gain some respect for yourself, start your life without him and then maybe he will see that life does go on without him and he might change but don't count on it. Good luck!
2007-01-25 23:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by Clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE!!!
Go to a women's shelter. Or back to your folks. Or move in with a relative or a friend. But get out of that unhealthy relationship. Never gonna get better there, could get a whole lot worse.
Leave. Now.
2007-01-25 23:21:46 · answer #4 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have friends to go out with then you have friends you could stay with. Get a job and become independent. You're relying on someone who obviously doesn't respect you or care what you want. You can be your own boss if you pay your own bills. Good Luck! =)
2007-01-25 23:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by DB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT NOW!! It will only get worse with time...
Take away the control he has (or thinks he has) over you--he is a weak man..
Been there done that - got a boat load of T-Shirts!
You would be surprised - If you tell him you are leaving him he may just help you pack! My X did......when the control is over they are done with you....
Good luck and be safe
2007-01-25 23:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by Aero-Smith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is going to throw you out anyway, just leave first. You should be allowed to go out too.
2007-01-25 23:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a women's shelter or go home to your parents. Aunt. Friend. Cousin.
2007-01-25 23:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with violet pearl , you got to get yourself somewhere else to go , he only does this over and over because you allow him to so when he kicks you out do yourself a favor and don't go back
2007-01-25 23:15:13 · answer #9 · answered by mom of 4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start lookin for a roommate....go to www.roommates.com and find someone that needs a roommate. He should not treat you that way.
2007-01-25 23:12:04 · answer #10 · answered by Just Wondering 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youhave kids together-there is a slight problem-if you work try to save enough money to move out on your own...
2007-01-25 23:13:46 · answer #11 · answered by zzevilonezz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋