So there is this guy that I am way into, and he is into me. We have told each other this, but how do we move to the next step? How do we get past the awkardness of the whole situation? What are some reasons I could give to spend more time with him? I just don't know what to do, any helpful advice would be appreciated! Thanks!
2007-01-25 14:42:03 · 18 answers · asked by Kaitlyn F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Spend some one-on-one time together...chat, chat & chat...get to know one another.
2007-01-25 15:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romantic attraction is all about energy - set the stage and let the flames ignite.
Instructions
•STEP 1: Love yourself - and show it, using body language: Sit up straight, make eye contact and shake hands firmly. There's nothing sexier than self-confidence.
•STEP 2: Be approachable. Again, here's where body language can help - face the person with your arms uncrossed, make eye contact and smile with sincerity.
•STEP 3: Plant some romantic seeds - put the idea of romance in his or her head without being too obvious. For instance, do thoughtful things for your soon-to-be suitor to show that you are going out of your way for him or her; listen with your whole heart when he or she speaks - there is nothing more romantic than to feel someone is really hearing you.
•STEP 4: Create opportunities for a romantic interlude. These can be either subtle ("I heard that movie got great reviews. We should really go see it sometime.") or much more blatant ("Can I cook for you sometime?")
•STEP 5: Don't be afraid to make the initial contact. Sometimes, all the other person needs is the green light.
•STEP 6: Be yourself, and take pride in your individuality. If the other person doesn't appreciate it, you definitely deserve better.
Tips & Warnings
•Be a friend first and spend some time together.
•If your self-confidence needs a little boost, indulge yourself with a makeover or a visit to a day spa; spend some time alone doing something that you're good at; smile often and work on your posture (both of these can affect your mood).
•Focus on other things to avoid becoming obsessed - and to show yourself and your potential suitor that you have other interests and talents.
•Be patient - being pushy or needy is likely to get you the opposite response from the one you're after.
•Don't waste your valuable time and energy on someone who is clearly unavailable. Does the person's body language make him or her unapproachable? Perhaps he or she does not want to be pursued in the first place.
2007-01-25 22:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how my husband and I started and finally I was like hey you wanna go with me to the movies this weekend and we had a great time and he has asked ever since you sometimes have to make the first move the worst he can say is no and then you will not have to wounder but really make the first move
2007-01-29 16:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by ?asker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love each other....
great!
Now you ought to have more fun with each other to remove the awkwardness you may be feeling. To get past this feeling just go out, go to theme parks, to discos, wherever you can think of.
You know what interests him?
Let me give you an example-
Suppose he is a history buff. Just ask him to take you to a Museum!
Now that'll trigger him off.
When you have fun, overtime the 'Speed breaker effect' will wear off and you two will flow as smoothly as the southern Wind!
Take care
have fun! :o)
2007-01-25 22:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by I am the Last Leaf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, improve your friendship with him. It is easiest to do, and think about it...whats really important in someone you'll be with? - being FRIENDS. Also, it will allow you to get to know eachother better without the hasle of 'dating'. Just hang out together a lot more and ask this question in 3 or 4 months if you're still interested.
2007-01-25 22:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by fslcaptain737 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If u r both "n 2 eachother" !! Just tell ur ready to take ur realationship 2 next step. If he feels the same that will b enough said ya know
2007-01-25 22:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by hotbunnydoll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go hang out at the mall and have a soda or something--talk and get know each other better. It shouldn'e be that awkward if you two are so into each--that should come naturally.
2007-01-25 22:49:41 · answer #7 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hate these situations, because when nothing happens you both feel depressed.
Physical contact to the guys arm and that will be a great icebreaker, but make sure you do it only to him, and no one else.
Doing this will build his confidence, and make him more comfortable around you
Final answer if nothing happens, get someone else to organise it, ie mutual friend or ur friend talk to him.
2007-01-25 22:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If yall really like eachother.....ask him to a movie, or a place with mutual friends. If you know he likes you it shouldnt be hard to find a reason to be around. One very enjoyable day with him will make him want to be around more.
2007-01-25 22:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A KISS can replace a thousand words sometimes
2007-01-25 22:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to blockbuster and rent all about guys or guide to being a guy and you may find some answers and watch it with him maybe?
2007-01-25 22:52:47 · answer #11 · answered by matthew m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋