...hard to figure out. we just met but i still dont know him that well and he hardly knows me. is he interested in me? these are the incidences we had and after that, i keep wondering if he like me:
- he offered to help me do something when i was struggling
- everytime he sees me he strikes up a convo by says pointless jokes
-one time he asked me to come with him and a group of friends out for lunch
- i always notice him around more often
does he like me? i think i like him. what do i do to keep his interest in me?
2007-01-25 14:40:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He does like you--and don't do anything more than be you and what you are doing to spark his interest in you--he's already there.
2007-01-25 14:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romantic attraction is all about energy - set the stage and let the flames ignite.
Instructions
•STEP 1: Love yourself - and show it, using body language: Sit up straight, make eye contact and shake hands firmly. There's nothing sexier than self-confidence.
•STEP 2: Be approachable. Again, here's where body language can help - face the person with your arms uncrossed, make eye contact and smile with sincerity.
•STEP 3: Plant some romantic seeds - put the idea of romance in his or her head without being too obvious. For instance, do thoughtful things for your soon-to-be suitor to show that you are going out of your way for him or her; listen with your whole heart when he or she speaks - there is nothing more romantic than to feel someone is really hearing you.
•STEP 4: Create opportunities for a romantic interlude. These can be either subtle ("I heard that movie got great reviews. We should really go see it sometime.") or much more blatant ("Can I cook for you sometime?")
•STEP 5: Don't be afraid to make the initial contact. Sometimes, all the other person needs is the green light.
•STEP 6: Be yourself, and take pride in your individuality. If the other person doesn't appreciate it, you definitely deserve better.
Tips & Warnings
•Be a friend first and spend some time together.
•If your self-confidence needs a little boost, indulge yourself with a makeover or a visit to a day spa; spend some time alone doing something that you're good at; smile often and work on your posture (both of these can affect your mood).
•Focus on other things to avoid becoming obsessed - and to show yourself and your potential suitor that you have other interests and talents.
•Be patient - being pushy or needy is likely to get you the opposite response from the one you're after.
•Don't waste your valuable time and energy on someone who is clearly unavailable. Does the person's body language make him or her unapproachable? Perhaps he or she does not want to be pursued in the first place.
2007-01-25 22:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he likes you. You should try to become his friend. Go out with him and his friends sometime, get to know each other. If you really like him, let him know. The other answer had some good tips for letting him know you're interested. Smile a lot, and be yourself :)
2007-01-25 22:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by the_blue_violinist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talh to him and actually go out with him. This shouldn't be that difficult.
2007-01-25 22:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋