i was dating this girl and talked everyday, had a lot of fun and never argued. recently she asked me to give her space though. it's been 6 days now...how much longer should i wait? and then should i text her or something? and what should i say in the text? like "just want to say hi, have good day" or "hope you're well" or something like that? please give me some examples! i really miss her and it hurts to wait..
2007-01-25 14:32:59 · 19 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once I asked a guy to give me space, about a week, and he emailed me in the middle of the week and it bothered me 'cause I felt I had to answer his email, and it felt like he wasn't giving me space... It bothered me so much I asked for more time.. just wait for her to call you... Honestly, he smothered me... I wanted things to flow naturally and he was too overwhelming.. that's the only reason I needed space... sometimes guys have to play hard to get too...
2007-01-25 14:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to wait, but That's the thing with love, you have to make exceptions. Just give her what she asks for, space. She may have wanted this because of something that was done, something that she heard, or that she's confused. Send her a message that says, 'Hi, honey. I know you said you wanted space and I'm willing to wait for you forever, but I just wanted to let you know that I miss you like crazy and I cant wait to see you.' that'll make her speed up her time. Charm her, but be patient. Good luck.
2007-01-25 14:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by Girl-In-Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the hurt. You call her and be cool, ask her how she is, and say you were just calling to see if she'd like to spend some time together. She'd been on your mind, and see where the conversation goes from there. She may indicate she was waiting for the call, or totally blow you off with some lame excuses, whatever you will get a feel for the situation and go from there. Good Luck, it isn't fun to hurt.
2007-01-25 14:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by Sage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes space can mean I don't want to be with you anymore or she just needs time to think. Space means space but if you feel like you really miss her then text her. Just ask her if she's doing alright. If she tells you she's doing fine then leave it at that. She will think you're desperate.
2007-01-25 14:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by lilbit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 days has definately been long enough, i wouldnt recommend texting because then she can choose not to answer it. since your comfortable talking with her call her up and just see how she is doing and if she wants to go get a cup of coffee or something like that some time. she is probably under a lot of stress so dont keep calling her
2007-01-25 14:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should send her some flowers. Doesn't have to be anything fancy. It'll let her know that you are still interested, without contacting her. If she doesn't respond, you'll know for sure she's not into you anymore. On the other hand it'll put a big smile on her face and she will get back at you, on where you guys stand. Good Luck!!!
2007-01-25 15:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by Rakita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a woman, but I would maybe call her and shoot the **** with her like you would one of your guys friends, just so you can feel your way around the situation some, but try not to over react, I know what id be thinking, but I'm not always right/ in sphycology they pointed out something simple to us, Guys will 1)Feel 2)React 3)last think about it all / women usually like to 1)Feel 2)Think about it 3)Last react to it / if they dont get some time to think about thinks nd decide, they feel cramped and rushed. why I say maybe ut of the blue call her, but just talk to her at a similiar level you go to your guy friends to start, maybe she'll like things about the non dating side also. Good luck to you on it.
2007-01-25 14:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by hardwood_flooring_wi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should say good bye for good, It's done and it's gone!
Me when I say space I take a month or so and then when he calls me back I would say you know I was thinking about the relationship and I think it's not working out, or just simply say I thought about it and I want to break up, done for good. Fished it up. My advise to you is to look forget about her, look else where! She did't actually say it with those words that it was over, but that's what she meant.
2007-01-25 14:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by mexlavanderlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hang in their ...give it a few more days ,,,than text message her ...and ask her how she is ...tell her you miss her too...maybe she just needed a bit of space take care
2007-01-25 14:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should text her or call her just to see if she responds. If she does respond tell her that you miss her and you really like her. Women love that stuff honey, but if she doesn't respond try to move on and don't wait around for her call.
2007-01-25 14:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by sweet p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋