guys how do u show it if you like a girl?

Question

i really like this guy but i want to know if he likes me. here's some clues, guys see if any of them ring a bell.

~we have a lot of awkward silences

~during these, like when other ppl are around but i'd rather talk to him than them but can't, i feel strongly that he wants to talk to me but doesn't know what to say

~he has only said hey first on IM once...

~when he talks on IM he uses usually one word answers

~my friend said she caught him looking at me with a dreamy, serene look in his eyes, but she tends to embellish a bit.

~he's more popular than me, but i can't tell if he cares or not.

~he's nice to my friends that are,um, 'unpopular' but seems to want to be, uh, somewhere else.

~he's cute and everyone says we make a cute couple tho we're not one yet

~every time someone asks if we are going out, he acts embarrased, averts his eyes, and either shakes his head, or laughs nervously and says quietly, 'no'.

~he's had a lot of gfs, i think.

help me plz!

yeah ur the rudest ppl ever

Answer 1

stop being paranoid!!!!! basically, in highschool at least, we act stupid and shy. at least i do. i have a similar problem. no one's answered it yet though. people are so cruel. good luck

Answer 2

You have taken so much trouble to analyze this and write so much. You must really like him.
This deserves a long answer. But, I would say this one word:
It is so sweet. Love is grand, isn't it.?

He is shy. He just does not know how to express it. Don't push him. Play along with it and you will be fine.

You assume he is a lot of gfs. Not really. If he is like that, many girls would have observed him to be the same. You stay the course. Go along with it.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Dont hide behind Questions the direct approach is usually best with strong feelings passion first desire second and if you have room find out who he is as many sources as you can>>?

Answer 4

Sometimes the direct approach is best - just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs.
Behavior
Instructions
•STEP 1: Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question. Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
•STEP 2: Is this person "accidentally" running into you in places where he or she knows you will be, such as at your desk? At the Laundromat on Tuesdays? At your brother's birthday party?
•STEP 3: Make a note if he or she mentions future plans to spend time with you: "That band is coming to town soon. We should really get tickets."
•STEP 4: Spend time alone together. Canceling other plans in order to be with you longer, or not finding excuses to leave, could be a sign of interest.
•STEP 5: Has he or she been calling for random reasons, such as, "I was wondering if you knew what that pizza place down the street is called," followed by, "Are you hungry?"
•STEP 6: Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something - and it's probably not your stamp collection.
•STEP 7: Observe how the person acts around your friends - he or she might be extra friendly to your closest pals for a reason.
Body Language
Instructions
•STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you?
•STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same.
•STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction.
•STEP 4: Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek?
•STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms.
•STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?

Answer 5

He likes you, listen to Christine's advice... I've got nothing to say she hasn't said better..

Best of luck, don't fall too fast, you'll never believe how many boyfriends you'll have before you're 30. But you will.

Answer 6

If he pays attention to you when you're talking and shows concern. He may care about you.

Answer 7

Uhm. I may be going out on a limb here, but how about asking him?

Answer 8

I usually drool uncontrollably. Works every time!!

Answer 9

i suggest flirting with other guys when you're around him...if he's into you he'll go after you, trust me...I AM A DUDE!

Answer 10

Awwww....how sweet