if a guy is using you on a vacation for sex ..will he talk to you after the vacation when you guys live really far away, and would he write back to a letter that said "don't write back if you don't want anything to do with me" ?
2007-01-25 14:19:38 · 2 answers · asked by brigid d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably not. Long distance relationships are hard enough. You already know he is using you? So this sounds like it isn't a real relationship. You should ask him yourself. If you are old enough to have sex with someone you are old enough to have a conversation of such. The "don't write back if you don't want anything to do with me" sounds kind of childish to be honest with you.
Why let someone use you? You deserve more. Respect yourself enough to have a real relationship. Have a relationship that has open honesty and communication and one with trust. Hugs to you.
2007-01-25 14:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a guy, but from what I hear from my guy friends, I would imagine that there is an unspoken rule kind of like 'what happens in vegas stays in vegas' that you both understood. You can usually read someone and tell how they are feeling about you. Just go with the flow and most importantly what your comfortble with.
2007-01-25 22:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by heidi v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋