well you guys on monday me and my boyfriend was on the phone talking and his bestfriend witch is a girl called him and he told her he'll cal her back when he's done with me ....so she called me right after and said you know he not talkin to me cuz of you i need him right now and he doesnt even care n she hung up.today she called me n said im the reason why my man isnt talking to her.you guys i dont no what to do..should i break up with him because i feel so bad .n i love him but honestly i dont know
2007-01-25 14:07:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't break up with him. why would you break up with him if you love him? that's just stupid. listen, she's just jealous and upset because she feels like you're hogging him and taking him away from her. it's not your fault, it's his. he needs to balance the two of you better so he is there for both of you when you need him. instead of breaking up with him, tell him he should be there for his friend more because she obviously needs him there as abest friend.
2007-01-25 14:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Soooo you're feeling badly because she's a selfish brat?
Is he dating her or you?
Talk to your BF about this. Explain that she seems to think that she has a claim on his time, and you're trying to be respectful, but that you like to spend time with him also. Ask him what you should do... It could give you insight to how he feels about her, about you, insight into what kind of person he is...
One warning, though-- She may be feeling this way for a good reason. Not all guys are decent. Your man might be dating her, as well.... Also- if he is loosing interest in you, shifting his sights, you may hear something you don't like. Be prepared to accept whatever he says in a respectful mature way.
2007-01-25 22:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, you should not break up with him. The reality is that she's not the only girl in his world anymore. Let him decide and give attention to both of you.
2007-01-25 22:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by babycakes7795 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't trip off of this broad, she sounds catty and jealous. As long as your man is treating you right and putting you first then don't worry about her. Have faith in him and your relationship, I would also communicate nicely to your man about her ways.
2007-01-25 22:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by livlovelaugh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's jealous. Let her be jealous. It's nice that your bf has his priorities straight, and you're #1. That's only natural, and nothing to feel guilty about. That girl needs to get a life.
2007-01-25 22:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well you got to quit sharing him.Who doe's this other woman think she is?His mom?But if he really wants to keep on with her, call me.Kidding but do not put up with it, you deserve better.Peace Victorio
2007-01-25 22:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by walter_nahbexie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's jealous
she might even like him or whatever
but that dont mean you gotta end your relationship,
if u feel bad then tell him to start talking to her more
2007-01-25 22:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by 100%Lovable 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes when people get into relationships their friends have to take a back seat.. and if they are true friends they will understand... and she doesn't sound too understanding ... don't blow it with him just b/c he has hurt her feelings in the mean time you may want to discuss it with him...
2007-01-25 22:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by *little one* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well all i can say is that you should tell ur bf to talk to his friend and you should try to help in anyway you can, but it doesnt mean keeping away from him either.
2007-01-25 22:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well have you like tryed talkin to him??? i mean that happened with me and my ex and i hated it but i broke up with him, and i regret it, if you can do something other than break up with him i suggest u do it, it sucks having to do it... sorry if i wasn't much help..i hope i was
2007-01-25 22:29:55 · answer #10 · answered by riah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋