K, so like, there's this guy I like, and he's really nice, mature, responsible, and caring. He's never drank, smoked, gotten high, nutin... I really like him, but there is sort of an age gap... He's older, obviously, but I'm scared he's TOO old...
In fact, he's like, 18, and I'm like, not. I'm like, 14. That's a pretty big gap for that age group... ANyways, I talked to the girl that just broke up with him (she's my age too) and she told me he's not some player or anything... He's really loving. THe went out for 1 1/3 years, in fact. She broke up with him cuz she was unhappy he was older. They didn't like, sleep together much... He says she was his first, not only "partner", but also girlfriend. She wanted "it", not him. ANyways, I know FOR SURE he likes me, maybe even more than I like him, so what do you think about the situation?
2007-01-25 13:57:58 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol, lots of typos!!!
2007-01-25 13:58:10 · update #1
if u like him go for it f**** the age gap
2007-01-25 14:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
When I was 14 I was dating a 19 year old, we where in love and together for a year, even got pregnant by him, even though I miscarried due to him stressing me out. But you are right, he is to old. At 18 men which is what he is like women their age, usually they only date younger girls, when it is to use them are women their age don't want them. Think about it think of the poplar guys at the school that all the girls want they usually date the girls in there grade, and when they do date a younger girl, it is probably a secret type thing not all in the open. You friend might have wanted it, but that's the game you treat her like a queen to make her feel good and important, you might even act like you don't want to do it, just to make her want to do it more. Its the game that even grown men play. and at 14 it doesn't take much to feel special i have been there. Trust it's not a good idea but you know that is why you are asking about it. you know its not right even your friend knows it now
2007-01-25 14:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by LoTs2ShArE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just move on and leave him alone but my concern is this why is he only dating girls that is 14 yrs old there is something wrong there. and you will grow up thinking what a big mistake you made while young! and remember he can tell you any thing and it could be a lie and he could be an undercover pervert be careful. so down and don't do it! good luck PS: remember you are still jail bait!
2007-01-25 14:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think of, and do you comprehend became she doing it intentionally? It sounds like she became. the two she became teasing you or putting mercy on you and attempting ti supply you alleviation. What could you think of in this occasion? i could help you (i'm no longer a **** i basically comprehend you had to be embarrassed and in discomfort) Do you like speedos, or word if a guy have been given 'excited' in one? i do no longer probable care what style of water ware you have. And yeah truly ordinary to tell, sorry. i wish I helped sorry if i did no longer.
2016-11-27 19:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, I think you're way too young to get into any serious relationship. Even if your parents let you date; they may not want you to go out with an 18 year-old boy.
If he likes you, he will ask you out. It's better to have a guy asks you; you don't want to be too anxious about it. And don't ever throw yourself at anybody even if you love him - it's not lady like. With any relationship - you want to go slow; one day at any time.
I would advise you to focus on school rather than boy because you’re not mature and you may get hurt. I know, teenagers have different concepts about priorities, fun, dating, etc. - just be cautious. Good luck sweetie!
2007-01-25 14:29:40 · answer #5 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's too old for you. You could get into trouble but he could go to jail. He is immature for his age. Possibly emotional problems. Don't go out with him. Find someone younger. There will be plenty of time later in your life for older guys.
2007-01-25 14:21:20 · answer #6 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
18 vs 14 is just plain creepy. If you really like each other, wait for 4 years until you are 18, since right now he can be put in jail for having sex with a minor.
Comedy option: let him stick it in ur pooper!
2007-01-25 14:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by Toga 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
are u mad ur underaged Get jesus in ur life and stop saying like like like in all u say sheez caucasian dialect
2007-01-25 14:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by uncrowned ruler 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋