My girlfriend seems to be less serious about our relationship than I am. Should we just break up and save ourselves the trouble?
2007-01-25 13:51:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think both of you need to talk about the relationship....
ask how she really feels about you...
and if anything tell her how u really feel..that u r really serious and that you hope she feels the same and if she does...all you want from her is to show it..that she does care bout this relationship..
me and my bf had the same problem and i thought i was goin to explode because i kept thinkin that way .... so i finally sat with him and talked to him about it..i mean we argued bout it but he got my point..and he does lil things to me that means a lot to me..
and theres really no such thing as person loving more than the other...everybody is different..they have their own way to show their love..you just have to understand her ways....
and no matter wat though...as long as you knw that she loves you, you shouldnt care if she loves you more than you love her..
love is love...its in one level....
but talk to her about it...communicate!
=)
2007-01-25 14:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by lovelylen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask her if there are problems. But if you are feeling that you should "save ourselves the trouble", perhaps you don't feel like there is much worth in this relationship, anyway. Decide on how you feel as well.
2007-01-25 22:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by Green thumb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how long ya been dating but... try giving her some time first but if it persist confront her and try to find out exactly how u feel... don't jump into conclusion cause might just be going through a tough time... hope that help... good luck
2007-01-25 22:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by allstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should go talk to her about it...we r not her and you r not her, how would u know she's not serious?!If you have a problem, talk it out...not just run away from the problem..
2007-01-25 22:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by Shining StaR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it. if she doesn't feel the same way you do, it will eventually go downhill. end it and go out with someone that would feel the same way.
2007-01-25 22:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by Trisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with her and let her know what you are feeling and thinking.
2007-01-25 22:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should try to work it out and if that doesnt work then break up with her
2007-01-25 22:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by nicki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea and give me her #
2007-01-25 22:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋