ok i like this girl and my friend told me he told her but im not positive she knows the porblem is i wanted to ask her to the next dance but its girls ask guys what do i do??
2007-01-25 13:40:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it's hard to understand your question with your English. I guess you were asking about how to ask a girl out, right? If so, here are the tips for you.
Whether the other person is interested or not, you'll never know unless you ask. So gather up all your courage and follow these steps.
Instructions
•STEP 1: Introduce yourself to that person you've been admiring from afar.
•STEP 2: Get the person's telephone number, or tell a common friend you would like the number.
•STEP 3: Call. Choose a time that is not intrusive. Call when you are comfortable doing so, regardless of what your friends might say about the right time to call.
•STEP 4: Reintroduce yourself once you're on the phone by saying something like, "Hey, it's Shirley. We met at the drag strip."
•STEP 5: Using as little pretense as possible (ideally none), ask the person if he or she would like to get together for a cup of coffee or do something similarly casual. If you are politely refused, take the hint and get off the phone.
•STEP 6: Meet casually for a brief time - half an hour or so. If that goes well, suggest a more formal date, such as lunch.
•STEP 7: Go on the more formal date.
Tips & Warnings
•Besides getting a cup of coffee, some of the best ideas for a date are the things you love to do the most, such as going to an art museum or getting muddy on a mountain bike ride. This gives the other person a chance to get to know more about your personality.
•Humor is often the best remedy for rejection. Congratulate yourself for trying and move on.
•Going to see a movie is not a very good idea for a date; it shows a lack of creativity and does not allow the two of you to spend much time talking.
2007-01-25 13:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you can wait to see if she asks you then you'll find out for sure if she's interested. Or you can ask her out beforehand and if things go great, hopefully she'll ask you to the dance. Don't take it too personal if she doesn't respond right away or she's not as open. It can be kind of intimidating to know that someone likes you and you have no idea how to handle it. Usually the guy does the whole asking out thing so she may feel weird. You already put yourself out there so just continue to stay out there and ask her out. You can also find out from your friends or her friends what she thinks so you can see what you're dealing with. Good luck!
2007-01-25 21:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by meghanw1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it would help if we knew a bit more ab out you and your age and how well you know her etc etc. i would say before you ask the girl to go to the dance talk to her a bit, get to know her, that way the first time you hang out isnt at the dance. unless of course A. you are drop dead sexy, or B. you are a pimp. if its a jr high dance or sumthing. dont even bother asking. just go to the dance and ask her to dance there.
2007-01-25 21:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a girl's perspective, it's always nerve racking to ask a guy out. so she'll definitely feel comfortable if you hint at her for the dance. be like "so..have you asked anyone to the dance yet?" and stuff. and compliment her..just hint that you like her without sounding immature
2007-01-25 21:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by dancer 8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting problem. Hey, in love and war, there are no rules. Let it be known that you want her to ask you out. There is always some other guy that is waiting to take your place.
2007-01-25 21:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by lostlatinlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean the dance in Sadie Hopkins? Well, screw with the "rules" they're more like guidelines anyways...
2007-01-25 21:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by Hideaki Takizawa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really like her just keep giving her looks let her know that you are noticing her compliment her hair her clothes tell her she looks nice or just go tell her how you feel not around your friends
2007-01-25 21:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by sharktale33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her face 2 face if she likes u.
2007-01-25 21:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by toni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out somewhere else before the dance. then maybe she'll ask you back after yall hang out and what not.
2007-01-25 21:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... Ask her out normally... then she'll ask you to the dance
2007-01-25 21:45:21 · answer #10 · answered by Andreios 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋