i've been stupid and hanging out with her to much at school a little clingy. I want to fix it but i don't want her to think i'm avoiding her. what should i do? Everything is ok relationship wise at sometimes but she has there spurts where she is like a different person and basically ignores me when i'm with her so i figured that maybe if i gave her more space she'd be happy.
2007-01-25 13:38:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By giving her a little space, you will allow her to miss you and actually think about you. A guy who is a bit too clingy and shows it, could be slightly scary and uncomfortable sometimes for a girl. It's great that you like her, but don't smother her or take all her time. You too, deserve some time alone and with other people. Let her know that you can still have feelings for her, but you each need time apart as well. Don't ignore her, make sure you smile and say "hi" when you see her. That will send her the message that she is not forgotten, but you do have a life outside of your relationship with her and vice versa. Try it and see if her spurts don't change for the better......
2007-01-25 13:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comminication is the key. ALWAYS. Space is always good too. Tell her how you feel and tell her about the "get away" vibe that you are getting from her. She might just be moody somedays and not want to talk to many people. Hope that helps!
2007-01-25 21:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by Katie :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her in a nice way...tell her you respect her space, and that if she needed a little bit of time alone every now and then, you understand.
Don't guess...ask her what she wants...you'll both know you are standing!!!
2007-01-25 21:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by Mark D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should give her her space but not so much to where she'll notice that you're never around. but don't be clingy. most girls don't like it when a guy is ALWAYS there.
2007-01-25 21:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to allow her some space , and you need to get out with your friends to ,you also need to talk to her about how you feel ,being honest can go a long way , good luck
2007-01-25 22:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by mom of 4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
space is good
2007-01-25 21:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon, talk to her, u'll figure out exactly what she wants
2007-01-25 21:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by HAPPY <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication dude
just tell her how u feel, i am sure she will understand.
2007-01-25 21:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋