I broke up with my boyfriend less than two weeks ago and I when I see him at school he never speaks he just walks past me and act like he dont even know my name. It seems like he is doing fine and like he is happy. It seems like he never think sbout me anymore since the break up, like he dont even care. And I am always thinking about him all day. Whats going on. HEEELLPP!!
2007-01-25 13:35:15 · 21 answers · asked by Beautiful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's hiding behind a macho mask. Believe me it hurts him too, but the maleness in him won't let him show it.
Now is the time you need your girl friends the most. Don't worry right away about finding another boyfriend. Just grieve your loss and go on with your life. Find things to do that are fun and don't involve him, and when you see him in school, do exactly as he's doing. Act as if it doesn't affect you at all.
2007-01-25 13:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by cruztacean1964 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think he's trying to hide the pain. The only way you can overcome a broken heart is by being patient on letting it heal. If he's not talking to him, confront him and ask him why you guys still can't be friends, even if it may be too hard. I think that he's just hiding his feelings behind his "fake happiness." Depending on how much you liked him depends on how long it will take your heart to heal. I hope that helps...
2007-01-25 13:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by Mechelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's hurt too. and u noe what? he's ignoring u because he's just trying to run away from the whole situation. Listen to Bryan Adams' "Everthing I do" AND "Hanging By A Moment" By Lifehouse a good song and will make u feel better about ur situation. U see im also broken hearted, but music is making the situation better . Good Luck
2007-01-25 13:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by HAPPY <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him.... Being friends with an ex right off the bat never works because someone always has SOME feelings. Just act the same way, like you dont know he exists.
2007-01-25 13:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start acting as if he is not in your life, just like he's doing 2 U.. trust me:) U will get over the butt head:) start seeing just how beautiful U R and others will see it also:) U will B going out soon:)
2007-01-25 13:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awe i wished i could give you a hug. I have been there, it sounds to me as if he is giving you the brush off. He ignores you when passing you at school, he has gone on. i know it hurts but you will find someone who deserves you love. Hang in there and with time you will wonder what you even saw in him. Time heals wounds. Be strong. :)
2007-01-25 13:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by Daisy77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi...Well I think he is thinking of you...A lot of times people do not show their true feelings...There must be a reason why you broke up with him...obviously you no longer wanna be with him...If that's the case than you need to move on and not play games with him...take care
2007-01-25 13:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...it really is hard to just get over someone that u cared for and just forget but him overnight...its not easy...
but he is obviously acting liek the immature one..he acts like that to get over u a lot faster....u should do the same thing..i mean u guys broke up for no reason and i gues both of us knw dats it better this way...thats he;s gon feel is to ignore u and hate you..
and after awhile he'll just get over that phase and in the future u guys might become friends..
but for u..i think u should just ignore him..if thats wat he wants give it to him....
u broke up with him..thats why he's actin like an asshole..
but this was your decision so..i think u should do the same thng and move one....once u realize that u are over him thats when ur heart will feel better and it willl heal...you will meet a new guy for u and who really cares for you..
gurl...you really just have to stop thinkin bout him everyday..i knw its hard ...but thats the first step to get over him and to overcome your broken heart...
2007-01-25 13:48:45 · answer #8 · answered by lovelylen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to remember that a women is not afraid to show her emotion but a man is cause he has an image he has to protect from his buddies, cause if he let his guard down you know they will make fun of him but a women shows all of her emotion especially when she has been hurt he just playing that hard game ignore him and move on cause deep down he is hurting to! good luck
2007-01-25 13:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure he wants YOU to think hes fine but he might very well not be. so what you should do is the same exact thing then who knows he might see that u r happy and end up talking to you again!! try it
2007-01-25 13:44:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋