2007-01-25 13:33:58 · 14 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex can be a little rough the first time, but if he is gentle and uses plenty of lubrication and foreplay, it will help. On her part, if she relaxes it will be less uncomfortable. Worrying whether it will hurt will only make her tense up, which would *cause* it to hurt.
The "mother" in me compels me to add: Be careful. Use a condom. And make sure you are ready for this step in your life.
2007-01-25 13:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by cruztacean1964 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The first time that you have sex it is going to hurt. I might even hurt the first couple of times, depending on the size of your partner. It does get easier as you go along. There really aren't any ways to make it not hurt. That is just something that us women have to endure. By making sure that you are well lubricated down there will help to make it less uncomfortable though.
2007-01-25 21:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what I was afraid of when I was considering having sex for the first time. "Will it hurt?" Well, I did it and I wouldn't say hurt. It was physically, extremley uncomfortable. Some bleed, some don't. Everyone is different. But if you have a considerate partner he will understand and be gentle.
Make sure you use a condom and Lube!
2007-01-25 21:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by bornalib 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts a little the very first time you have sex, and it only hurts when he first goes in.. after that, it doesn't hurt at all. If you can just get over that first time (which isn't as bad as you think it is), then you'll be having fun in no time!
2007-01-25 21:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're a virgin girl, it will and you will tear and bleed. The penis size and vigorousness of the thrusts will affect how much it hurts.
Everyone I know says the first time is the worst and gradually it won't hurt as much anymore.
2007-01-25 21:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by medsans1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your body just has to get used to it...get more flexible down there haha or have sex with a guy with a really small one and lots of lube...also it can hurt more if you don't want it or you're scared because your body will naturally tense and tighten up especially down there
2007-01-25 21:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its probally going to hurt no matter what for the first time or two.... use lots of lube and just rememebr it gets ALOT better.
2007-01-25 21:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by booboogirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It only hurts for a split second if your lucky. One day you will look back on this question, and laugh your head off, i promise you that lol lol lol.
Gmomma
2007-01-25 21:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it hurts for girls only so may be you want to use a cream to make it less soar
2007-01-25 21:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marking question to check back on it later...LOL! But seriously, me, I don't believe there is any way....unless it's not real sex...
2007-01-25 21:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by Hideaki Takizawa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋