1) is it weird for a 14(almost 15) year old to have never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone? it seems like everyone i know has some kind of hidden love life, and i just...don't. there are a few guys i like, but they are so confusing and i have never known what to think about it...which leads me to question 2...
2) There are 3 guys: guy # 1: i met him a few weeks ago at a party and he's kind of..um...not to be shallow, but heavier than most guys i find attractive, and he's definitely not that cute, but he is easy to talk to (only on IM!), tho he talks way too much about sports and i think he likes me, idk what 2 do about him.
guy # 2: he is 2 years older, and really cute, and ive had a secret crush on him for a while. i recently became good friends with him and i really like him, he's also easy to talk to, but i don't really hang out w/ him that often, and idk if he considers me dating material
guy # 3: adorably cute, i went to a dance w/ him b/c i finally got up the..........
2007-01-25 13:33:03 · 4 answers · asked by aerie anna 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...courage to ask him. it s fun, but we didn't have much to talk about, though he is really sweet and nice, and i like him. he hung out w/ one of my more popular friends most of the night but im not sure if he likes me or not...he definitely may. i think im gonna invite him to a movie or have a party this weekend...how do i figure out if he's into me quickly, so i don't waste time on him, without things falling apart? we have so much in common, even some of the same friends, though all more popular than me, and we love the same sports and music.
I am asking for anyone who can answer:
*is my situation freakish or weird and what can i do about it?
*how do i figure out which guy is right for me, and how do i get one to ask me out?
PLEASE HELP IT IS APPRECIATED!
14 minutes ago
they're all funny, nice, friendly guys, but i have no idea how you go about getting asked out.
2007-01-25 13:33:55 · update #1
no, i dont think its werid. i didnt get my first kiss until i was 14. you just have to wait for the right guy to come along, and he will..sooner or later. dont worry about it, it will come on its own time.
second, ask the 3rd guy to a movie or to hang out..if he seems interested, persue it. why not? i mean if you have a lot in common and get along...theres nothing to lose. if yall hang out and nothing happens..try the next guy (:
2007-01-25 13:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is definitely nothing wrong with you! My gosh, the "good" ones get overlooked all the time, so don't worry about this at ALL!
Actually, I think it's better that you let the guy approach you about a date, or get involved in planning a group going to a movie or something and ask the guy to go with the group.
Don't dismiss guy 1 because of his weight (don't do that); for me, it would be more because of the sports. However, you won't know until you spend more time with him.
At your age, you have to watch out for guys two years older - it's different if you were 16 or 17, but to start out with, stay in your age group, crush or not.
Have fun, talk with your mom and good luck!
2007-01-25 21:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what other answers you got before, but i wish i could really convince you to believe that it is so NOT weird to be inexperienced in sexual matters at your age. your parents and family members would be relieved. you must understand that most people, when they get older, regret it when they are not particular enough with men. and remember- some people embelish and down-right lie about their experiences. stay picky girl. now- as for the guys that you are interested in, if non of them are just pulling your heart all over the place, then look elsewhere. you would not have to ask which one is the best, you would know, so i say,non of them. stay as you are!!!
2007-01-25 21:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by DEBI M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow girl u've got something going on! i think u should assess all of 'em and see who loves u the most, not who u love. This guy is gonna do all he could to be yours...so go with him. Dont worry I had my first kiss till after 14~
2007-01-25 21:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by HAPPY <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋