I have a girlfriend...I been going out with her for almost 3months now. I really love her a lot. But I know she still has feelings for one of her ex-boyfriends. Because She had broke up with him, but she still liked him.....and a couple of days later he got in a bad accident, and he has been in a coma since. I know she still got feelings for him. What should I do? Should I break up with her or what? I don’t know what to do?
2007-01-25 13:30:15 · 20 answers · asked by TheKid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she needs you to be strong for her, if he comes out of the coma set her free (since u really love her) tell her u want her to be happy then see what happens
2007-01-25 13:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by uncrowned ruler 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well this is a tough one. Dont accuse her of still having feelings for him if you don't know for sure, because maybe she's just concerned about his health.
Ask her seriously about it, in a non-confrontational manner, and tell her to be honest that whatever her answer is that you'll be ok, and if it's a yes, then move on, and if it's a no then trust her.
People usually dont date people for 3 months when their hearts are in a different place, I mean it happens, but now-a-days I think people will follow their hearts, so I suggest you do the same, find out, and do what you think is right
goodluck!
2007-01-25 13:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. O'Neill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shows she has a good heart.
When someone isn't with someone anymore it does not mean they have to hate each other.
Plus... the guy is in a COMA. If she is going to be nice and like some other guy THIS IS THE GUY YOU WANT HER TO LIKE... not a real good chance she is going to cheat on you with a guy in a coma.
Tell her that it really makes you like her even more that she shows caring for this guy being hurt. Tell her she is a very special and caring person. She will like to hear that.
2007-01-25 13:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by CTM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?! He ex-BOYFRIEND is in a coma! Of course she still has feelings for him! And YOU, you've only been together for 3 months, yet you claim be be in "love" with her. What kind of idiot are you?! How dare you ask whether or not you should break up with someone who is going through something such as this!? She's going through a very emotional period and you want to break up with her?! You're a douche bag, plain and simple! What you need to do is shut the hell up and stay with her. ...she really needs to dump your *** for even considering such things!
2007-01-25 13:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by silence_within_chaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my girlfriend for over 4 years now. One of the secrets to our success is communication. If you have concerns about how she feels, ask her. Be honest, and don't get angry or upset at any answer. You should inform her of your goals for the relationship and ask if she shares those goals. If she cannot answer you right away for your questions, let her think about them. A true answer is better then one hastily given. Be aware that sometimes, relationships take a ton of work and can be difficult. If she's worth it to you, the work it requires will be also.
2007-01-25 13:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by excentric_13073 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys is in a coma what's to be jealous about. You should feel bad for him like any normal person.
2007-01-25 13:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU KNOW IT IS DEVASTATING TO HER, THIS GUY IS IN A COMA. WHAT DO YOU WANT HER TO DO, NOT HAVE ANY FEELING FOR THE GUY. EVERY EX BOYFRIEND WILL ALWAYS HAVE A CERTAIN PLACE IN A PERSON LIFE I'M A OLDER WOMAN, I STILL REMEMBER ALL EX BF'S AND I HUG AND TALK TO ALL OF THEM WHEN I SEE THEM. MY CLASS REUNIONS WE HAVE A GREAT TIME, THE SAME WITH MY HUSBAND AND HIS EX GF'S.
2007-01-25 13:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by bettys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough situation,man. Just ask her what her feelings are. She might not know, but if she wants some time and space, give it to her. Just keep talking to her and evaluate your own feelings too.
She may want to stay with you or worst case, at least you'll have a good friend that you can talk to if she goes back to him.
2007-01-25 13:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by medsans1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, do not walk run as fast as you can from her. This is the worst thing that could possibly happen, do not waste one more second on her, you will regret it. I promise you. You want to be the guy that your girlfriend can not forget and still has feelings the other option is not good.
2007-01-25 13:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by PrettyEskimo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey don't worry that much she has fellings for her ex. because well he was her ex bf. i'll go alway and if you break up with her then you'll lose the battle, so take her to a romantic dinner, and do romantic stuff so she could forget about him.
good luck
2007-01-25 13:38:29 · answer #10 · answered by Da 1 N only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋