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ok, im a 15 year old guy. IF YOUR AN ADULT ANSWERING THIS QUESTION, D O N O T say i am too young cuz im not. any way i like this girl named Kensy, well i find out she has a bf. I really like her, i cant stop thinking about her, but like i said she has a bf. HOW CAN I GET HER TO LIKE ME AND BRAKE UP WITH HER BF!!!????!!!!! PLEASE GIVE ME SOME HELP

2007-01-25 13:29:46 · 25 answers · asked by Derk 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

25 answers

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2007-01-25 13:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by neff8684 5 · 0 2

No, you aren't too young to feel infatuation. Girls that age are fickle. If you wait a little while you might not have to do anything to make her break up with her bf, it'll probably just happen. On the other hand if you do something to cause it, what's to say that she won't resent you for it. My advice, and this will last you the rest of your life, the only person you have 100% control over is you and how you react to a situation. You can't manipulate others. Treat her like a lady and she may see the light. If she doesn't just remember that she isn't the only girl in town.

2007-01-25 21:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie H 3 · 0 1

You are young, but not too young to have real feelings for this girl. I think the best thing to do is to be her friend. As hard as it may be at first to just hang out (as a friend); the best, longest lasting, most fun and loving relationships always have true friendship at the core. As far as trying to get her to break up with her boyfriend or to have a fling with you on the side; how could you ever trust her as your girlfriend if she is so easily stolen away? Be a "real" friend to her and when she finds out what a looser her boyfriend is you will be waiting with open arms. I was dating someone else when I met my husband at work. He was so funny and so nice that I dumped my boyfriend and we started going out. We have been together now for almost 17 years.

2007-01-25 21:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by Bean62960 3 · 0 0

I was dating someone else when I met my husband, but I wasn't in love with the other guy, as we were just getting to know each other. If she's really involved with this guy, you need to find someone else. The only other option is to wait it out. Kids in High School who stay together a long time are rare. Think of how you'd feel if someone tried to steal your girl. Still, you can put yourself in her way. Strike up a conversation whenever you see her. You'll be able to get to know each other and start up a friendship. If and when they break up, you'll be there for her when she needs a shoulder to cry on. Be patient. Good luck!

2007-01-25 22:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by Loki 3 · 0 0

Derk,
LOL...I just had to smile at the fact that you mentioned you are fifteen...but NOT young...gosh, don't U have an ego?! =) J/K

This sounds Oh SO familiar...but I just have to tell you this:

IF SHE WAS YOUR "ALREADY" GIRLFRIEND (*KENSY*> very cute name by the way*) AND SOME OTHER "FO" CAME AROUND LIKING HER...AND WANTING HER TO BREAK UP WITH U SO THAT SHE CAN GO AHEAD AND BE WITH HIM INSTEAD OF BEING WITH U....HMM NOW THAT WOULDNT BE NICE WOULD IT?....=)
*Anyways, DeRk....Love is so complicated...stay on the "down-low" and trust me..IF SHE IS MEANT TO BE..somehow GOD will find a way to bring her "Straight" into YOUR arms...and NO one else's...**wink** Trust. Believe.Hope.Pray.Smile.Love =)

Sincerely,
Your Friend **Ferrari Girl**

2007-01-25 21:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

this is from another 15 year old. and im telling you that that PROBABLY isnt going to work out. its fine to like the chick but dont try to get her to break up with her bf. just hang out with her and be her friend. this is a highschool relationship so she WILL break up with her boyfriend or the other way around sometime in the near future. just wait it out and be her friend, but dont jump right at her after she breaks up. give her a month or two after she is single then see what happens.

2007-01-25 21:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

If I was the girl and I liked you back...hm. Well you could flirt but not too much, and don't diss the boyfriend because then the girl will get mad. You should be friendly and polite. Pretend like you're okay with the boyfriend thing. You should make her want you, because if you try to break them up, things will get ugly.

xxoo

2007-01-25 21:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by Valary 1 · 0 1

okay..you want to be treated like an adult? Well dear this is going to hurt. You don't. When you like or love someone things can be pretty clouded.
What is crystal clear is she is in a relationship with someone she likes and you have no right to tamper with that. If she liked you she would be with you..it's that simple. I suggest you get another girl who may be interested in you before you loose face.
BTW..it is a fact that if a person will ditch their current to be with you then they will ditch you to be with someone else.

2007-01-25 21:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by merinass1498 2 · 0 1

If she wants to be with her bf and you know that, then you are playing yourself point blank. Then again, think about it-if she didn't want to be with him then she wouldn't. If she wanted to be with you, then she would be. get it? You can't make her break up with her bf-the only thing left for you to do since u like is to see her from far away-maybe only until she leaves her bf, u never know what's going to happen.

2007-01-25 21:39:58 · answer #9 · answered by gracy808 2 · 0 1

I think you need to know how she feel about her boyfriend cuz if shes like in love with him then quit but if she just likes him then flirt with her a lot and look at her ,smile, and ask her stuff about herself

2007-01-25 21:36:00 · answer #10 · answered by aLl I WaNtEd 5 · 0 1

Dude, if its ment to be, it will happen on its own. im sorry if this isnt what you wanna hear, but its the truth. look at it this way...if he finds out you were in some way responsible for them breaking up, do you wanna risk getting your *** kicked or something over it? not saying he will, but ive seen guys in fights over girls...

2007-01-25 21:35:45 · answer #11 · answered by Ashley M 7 · 1 1

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