4 days ago my bf told me that his sister was making up stories to his friends that I was cheating on him. I would never cheat on my bf I love him so much and plus I know how much it does hurt if somebody does cheat on you. So If his sister admits that she said stuff does this sound good:
- That's really low of you saying that I mean I dont know why you would want to start trouble. I can't see any point at all for you to be telling people that i'm cheating on your brother with my friend. I would never cheat on your brother with anybody and you should of already known that. I don't want to hear it again!
Anything else I should add on?
2007-01-25 13:05:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if I confront her...which I most likely will I'm not going to be mean/nasty or anything but I will get my point across in a firm way.
I think my BF knows in the past that I have gotten cheated on once b4 but i do need to talk to him about his sister & her friends. I already told my guy friend & he's probably going to end up telling her to back off & quit saying sh*t.
2007-01-25 13:20:43 · update #1
Ask her if she knows where I can find Scooby Snacks. I can't find those things anywhere and believe me I've looked.
2007-01-25 13:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good.
Just say, "What would make you spread such a hurtful rumor? I have never done anything to hurt you, so why would you go out of your way to try to hurt me and your brother? You need to put a stop to this."
And say it to her face. Don't make it easy on her by allowing her to hide behind a phone or the computer. Confront her in person.
2007-01-25 21:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't waste your time talking to her. just don't. because in the first place the only thing that matters is what your bf thinks. he is the one that should know u wouldn't cheat on him and he is the one that should tell his sister to stay out of his personal life. your bf should be sticking up for you, not allowing no one to disrespect u like that. if there's anyone u need to talk to, it's your bf.
2007-01-25 21:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by gracy808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her: You started a bunch of crap for no good reason.
Nothing good ever comes from harmful intentions. I want us to be friends after all I am dating your brother. When we do fun things with other people I would like to know we could invite you to come along. I do not want to divide his family over lies.
So do not do it again. We can be friends and put this behind us or I can be your worse nightmare...you choose.
2007-01-25 21:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why say anything? You don't need to defend yourself to anybody as long as your bf believes you, which it sounds like he does.
Just forget about it. Tell the sis it hurt you if u want, but even that isn't really neccesary.
2007-01-25 21:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by Chip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds good to me, but if she really wants to be mean no matter what you say or do she is going to keep saying it. I would more worried about talking to your BF so he knows the truth! Who care what she thinks, its what you know is true... and what he believes.
2007-01-25 21:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by sexy momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all Personally i wouldn't even confront his sister.
I would go up to my friend and my boyfriend and tell them both. Example. (Friend-Brandon and Boyfriend Jeremy)
Brandon you that Jeremy and I are in a relationship..... His sister is going around spreading rumours about........ Jeremy wanted to know was they true........
2007-01-25 21:13:46 · answer #7 · answered by besha08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even address it with any kind of response as it brings you down to the same level. Ignor Ignor Ignor
2007-01-25 21:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by victorschool1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what you say. Its your actions that count.
He will either figure out you are honest or you're not.
Words don't mean much to a suspicious guy.
2007-01-25 21:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by tabulator32 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now that was nasty. why would she do such a thing like that. lf l were you just tell her to mind her own business
2007-01-25 21:11:17 · answer #10 · answered by pamela d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋