i don't know about the popular part but i do know about the crush part...
i have been studying and reading books about body language so i know how important it is.
i have said this to many asking advice on Y!answers
try giving him eye contact as in look across to him, wait until he notices u , hold the gaze 5 secs and turn away
he should keep watching to see if you do it again
try delivering one or more fleeting smiles.
just a quick half smile.
you can also sit up straight and cross your legs and ankles.
if standing tilt ur hip and tilt ur head sidways towards a shoulder
play with ur hair 4 about 6 seconds.
you can try lipgloss however if the school or ur parents don't allow it
try licking ur lips!
there r also other gestures to show u r interested....
the head toss and hair flick
wet lips and pouting, mouth slightly opened
Self-touching (slowly stroke, ur neck or thigh, for example)
fondling a cylindrical object
exposing the wrist
sideways glance over raised shoulder (with partially drooped eyelids, hold his gaze just long enough 4 him to notice, then quickly look away)
Rolling hips and hands on hip gesture
the shoe fondle (dangling the shoe on the end of the foot)
the knee point (one leg is tucked under the other and points to the crush)
the leg twine
guys also like chick with long legs so if u have long legs, try to emphazie 'em!!
why not try to know what he is in for and learn abit about it (football, for example)
this way you can lead a conversation if u get the golden chance!
just be urself and don't rush him into things
take ur time, be urself and good luck
2007-01-27 07:41:05
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answered by buzylizzie 5
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I was never popular in school either, but the best way to do anything is to be yourself. If you want to be popular just be friendly and start talking to a popular person and maybe they will accept you for who you are.
At least let your crush know you like him in some way, send him a valentine or find a creative way to let him know you like him, without making yorself look dumb.
I found that just telling them you like them is easiest.
2007-01-25 21:07:39
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answered by ~*Bug*~ 3
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well..you shouldnt try to be popular because you will be if you are really meant to be! also, join some clubs or do extra cirricular activities at school, it gets you noticed and the more people that know you-the better! and for your crush, act flirty around him, smile A LOT, act happy to see him and around him, and maybe tell him that you want to hang out some time...?? that might be advanced though! i hope that i helped! GOOD LUCK......=]
2007-01-25 21:09:06
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answered by hil 2
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Why do you need to be popular??? What you can do to make friends and have guys to like you. Just by yourself! Don't try to be someone that you're not! It turns them off! Be considerate and just go on with your life as who you are and everyone will notice you. Try hang out with people who like to hang together. Go up to them and say hi my name is ....then from there with a flow you will chat and mingle on. who know guys will notice you. Don't be afraid to walk up to a guy and say hello. Most important is just be yourself and not something you are not!
2007-01-25 21:09:15
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answered by Anonymous
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do you look pretty? pretty and cute is like automatically popular.. i personally thinks almost every girl can be really beatiful.. besides.. some..not talking about those.. you should try to shop at like holister, those clothes turns me on.. join the cheer team or dance team.. get to kno the popular girls, if thats ok for you. then hang out with them..
thats basically how i did it, only on the boys side.. i join the football team.. and dressed prep. good luck to you.
2007-01-25 21:08:54
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answered by Tyler 2
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well to get your crush to like you be you. don't try to be sexy and real hot and real irresistible, but be you. try to update your style even if you don't have any money. do a different style with your hair every day and just be you. take a cut up t-shirt and put a shirt under. each day be more you, and try to become his friend. say hi in the hall way and each day become more friendlier, soon after that he will want to know you more and may even want to be more than friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-25 21:10:44
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answered by Anonymous
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Hang out with the preps.I dont know why you want to be something you arent though.Hang out with your crush and flirt with him.Do you really want to be considered a prep and be hated by many?
2007-01-25 21:07:43
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answered by Baby<3Britt 4
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hizza, ima the person to answer you, i was rated top coolest person at my school.. are moon boots in style? thats a start..
is your hair big and poofy? get it there...
wear tight clothes
do you walk down the hallways swinging a glass cane?
do you know all the street and slang words...?
here is a test...
mad fiddle be testing ya rings in the hizzle fo so, ya?
just be yourself, just like i was with this answer...
booma boom
2007-01-25 21:12:58
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answered by neff8684 5
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.Dress the way they do .Talk the way they do. Act the way they do .have as much money as they do .Get in the activities that they are in .Get in to the classes they are in .
Hope this helps .
It would be easier to make them want to be more like you and they would probably be better off .
2007-01-25 21:15:30
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answered by Elaine814 5
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do somthing new with yourself, to make everyone look at you. Start dressing nicer... do your hair, and learn to do your make up. Kids today are TRYING to do make up and well they just dont know how to do it and not look like a DOLL.... Know what i mean? So ask your mom or an Adult to help with make up tips.
good luck.
2007-01-25 21:07:30
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answered by sexy momma 3
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