My boyfriend (im 14 and been going out wit him for 2 months) broke up with me. Of course, he didn't do it to my face. instead, he went around telling everyone that he was going to. I found out from numerous people that day. I was really sad because we had just had a break and I hadn't seen him in almost two weeks and I really missed him. When I confronted him, he acted like nothing happened. So I just shook my head, walked away, and wished him a nice life. I missed him sooooo much after that and I told my friend and some guy overheard us talking. He spread it through the whole school. I hated it because all of the sudden after likiing him for so long i had to pretend I didn't care. Then he got cocky. He would put his arm around girls when i was around him.
Needless to say, I still like him, but I am too proud to admit it to him. And although 3 other guys have showed intrest in me, i can't move on. What do I do?
2007-01-25 12:57:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aww man....this is hard.....first of all y did he break up wif u? You should have asked him. He might give u a second chance.
2007-01-25 13:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anthony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear what you are going through! Unfortunately time is the only thing that will help you get through this. I know it probably doesn't help to hear this...but you are 14...so young and although you think this guy is the end all right now...I only hope you realize that you are worth so much more than to have someone treat you this way. Unfortuinately the way it is when you are that age for the most part. Hang in there...surround yourself with friends and a good support system that will help you get over this guy. Keep youself busy is the best way to try and keep your mind off of it - easier said than done, I know! Good luck!
2007-01-25 21:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by chick33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard. A few months ago, i was in your exact same position. You just have to repeatedly tell yourself, you are better and don't need someone like that in your life.
Move on. Go out with one of the other guys......just give it a try even though it's hard.
Count all the things you've learned from your previous relationship. Time heals everything. Do extra things--totally pamper yourself for a week. Hang tight to friends and keep your mind open. This is a new chapter in your life!
Best wishes!!!
OH YA, whatever you do, son't give HIM a second chance. He's not worth it, and ur better.
2007-01-25 21:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem.. or similar. I broke up with my bf of 4 years (we r 16) and he has been wanting me back for last 4 months. i said no in the beginning.. now i want him back 4 months after breakup and i cant really give in because of what i have said before.. and my own pride. i had to pretend like i hated him too...
So...If you like him and if he likes you (and if he is going to respect u) then let ur pride go.. and get back with him
However, if he is going to be all cocky then its not worth it. Hold ur head up high and go for the other guys that showed interest. They might help u move on....
u are only 14 after all, try to date other guys.. it will give u more experience... and more fun too
2007-01-25 21:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok girl you are only 14 yrs old, I am 19 yrs old...believe me at 14 the same things seems sooooo important to me...Im sorry but you WILL get over it and you WILL move on...give it about a week or so, trust me. But on the other hand, you need to make sure you dont play into him, do NOT let him kno that he has the upperhand in the situation. Keep your cool and fight fire with fire, ya kno...talk to other guys and stuff, you may find someone worthwhile and at the same time he WILL get jealous.....
2007-01-25 21:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by BlackandBeautiful2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on quickly and try not to make a pattern in life of holding on to what's not there. You are young enjoy life. Don't worry about what every one else has to say you need to be happy and starting to chat with someone else will take your mind off the other guy.
2007-01-25 21:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, i feel to u. I recommend a long vacation. On top of that, get u're self involved in some extra activity, go out w/ a guy. Along u're not fully over u're Ex, try to see u're life w/o u're Ex and maybe surrounded w/ friend and maybe a guy u like to see help u get through this. Pick a guy u trust and start them there.
2007-01-25 21:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by universe_20170 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give yourself some time. You're young so you have plenty of it. There's no rush at all. As a guy I'm telling you that we're not worth the trouble that girls put themselves through sometimes. Chin up :)
2007-01-25 21:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by brianottis08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys a looser. Find a decent boy that is honest and acts the same reguardless who they hang out with.
2007-01-25 21:06:10 · answer #9 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww im sorry that was really rude of him well dont go back out with him he seems like a jerk(no offense) well wait awhile if he just broke up with you then move on, u dont want him in ur life again if he is gonna be like that...srry...
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2007-01-25 21:05:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up im 14 so move on and wait till you get 18 then thats the life
2007-01-25 21:03:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋