She dumped me and now is calling me. I want her back. Should I not return her calls often and become a challenge? Or should I ask her why is she calling me and tell her I am moving on if she doesn't want to get together. She keeps calling me but we still have not met face to face for three weeks. Why is this girl calling me? What should I do? I know she still likes me cause she asks about girls I may be dating, but she won't meet with me. What's the best strategy to finding out if she will give you another chance?
2007-01-25 12:10:28 · 6 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your best bet would just be to ask her flat out what she wants. There could be many motives behind her calling you.
1. She misses you.
2. She wants you back.
3. She is just dragging you on because she knows you still like her. Kind of a "security blanket" for her. That way, if she doesn't find someone she knows you are still there. Or, if it doesn't work out in her next relationship she can come back to you.
Just because she asks about girls you are dating doesn't mean that she definitely still likes you. Her not wanting to meet face to face could mean either she wants to move on, or she is afraid that you will reject her if she asks for you to take her back.
Once again, it would just be best to ask her what her intentions are. Also, let her know that if she doesn't want a relationship with you right now, she needs to stop calling.
2007-01-25 12:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by cala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy this girl do not want you back, she is just making sure you are miserable loving only her and that you have not move on.Be smart start dating and you will find out if she for real.
2007-01-25 12:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by bluebird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i was you i would ask her why she was calling and if she doesnt want to get back together then she needs to stop calling... after people go out once usually the "lets be friends" thing doesnt really work out like it sounds.... 1 of my friends tried to kill himself because his ex kept hanging around
2007-01-25 12:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be cool about it. yeah, offer a challenge. she dumped you and wants you back, but act like your doing her a favor if you get together again. i think shes nervous of what you think of her. just act cool.
2007-01-25 12:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by bugsandtweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well personally, I would move on. I think she wants to have her cake and eat it too. She wants to keep you on a hook, but keep fishin.
2007-01-25 12:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by deflepfan67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE GIRLS ARE JUST LIKE THAT, WE DON'T KNOW WHAT WE WANT AND WE DON'T KNOW WHAT WE NEED, WE ACT LIKE WE CARE WHEN WE DON'T, SEE THATS HOW WE ALWAYS ACT, ONE WAY OR AN OTHER WE WILL ALWAYS BE THAT WE. SHE WANTS YOU THEN SHE DOESN'T, THATS HOW IT IS, GET USE TO IT!
2007-01-25 12:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by Gilly! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋