the 1st girl i know for like a year,more or less, and before i ment her i was a big flirt.a player i guess u could say o.0 well when im ent this girl i fall for her so badly. she was liek the 1st girl i really loved, i guess you can say. she made me feel like....wow she was always on my mind. i stop flirting with girls for her cuz shes all that was in my mind and that i want.she was everting to me. the next girl i ment over at my cusnes party,she liked me but i was like whatever i didnt care well she was sprung abt me and i found out she was haveing a really hard time at home and with life so i thought ill just talk to her and be like friends with her to make her feel better(she was like so in love with me, idk why or how. she buged my cusn talking abt me) oh and when i was talking to her me and the 1st girl were over.well i she at the point(the 2nd girl) that she'll kill and die for me.shes changeing skwl for me, to go to mines. ......(wait am going to post the rest now, plz help me)
2007-01-25 12:08:28 · 25 answers · asked by bugz_bunny26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being nice to girl # 2 doesn't mean that she has the right to be obsessive. If you are into girl #1, but just having a 'break' from her, then you need to put it out there. Even if things are truly over between you and #1 that doesn't
mean that you should feel forced to have a relationship with the second girl.
I would be worried that she might go to extremes, and threaten suicide to get with you.
she needs help,and you need to stay away.
the last thing you need is that kind of drama.
but you had better be straight with her and let her know that although you might want to be Friends, that it's as far as it will go
I'll check to see if there are more details. if so, I'll modify my answer.
2007-01-25 12:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with the first girl, or find someone else. pity is a dangerous thing, if you go there with her she'll be even more into you and it's already a relationship that you don't really want, though it is tempting to do so because she is so much into you. i mean it's cool for girls to be sprung onto you and it's convenient, because they'll do most of the hard labor but it's just wrong because you can't honestly give them what they truly deserve, and that's something you have to live with at the end of the day. it's always best to stick with the girl that either reciprocates your input, or that is on equal par with you and will go as far as you are with it, but someone you're more amused to see what happens, that's a bad idea it always blows up in your face. happened to me a few times i learned my lesson I'll never do it again ...
2007-01-25 12:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I kinda understood what you are saying here! You met the woman of your dreams who changed your bad boy ways! She fell for you and im guessing you fell for her? Then you have the "pitty" friend the one you just wanted to be friends with to save her life? So what do you need help with>? Ago i understand number one i have this to say! You are not a playah nor do you need to be! You need to respect other peoples feelings and emotions! I wish i was single so i could play you like a deck of cards then drop you on your face! So you would know who you make woman feel but im better then you so that wont happen HA! Yah thats mean but im no playah and if you think you are YOUR DUMB! Stop the spread of stds and **** STOP SLEEPING AROUND AND CHEATING! If thats the case then why have a girlfriend why not just sleep with whores?
2007-01-25 12:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So the second girl is the one that is moving closer to you? Changing school's? I dont know if I am understanding completely. First off, you should use syntax, spell check and periods in this paragraph. Its hard to understand.
No offense, but you need to man up, grow up and stop stringing people along. You sound like a young man, teen, or someone who does not have enough life experience. Life and growth will teach you this.
Good Luck!!!!
2007-01-25 12:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 2 varieties of righteousness. One is positional righteousness gained by ability of saving faith (repentance blanketed) in Jesus Christ. the different might properly be sought by ability of purely doing top for all time on your guy or woman potential. The Bible says no possible try this. to answer the question, righteousness is an inner characteristic, so outward appearances and movements may well be deceptive. God judges by ability of what's interior the midsection. Humankind judges from the outdoors. 20 yo chicks out partying does no lend itself to a honest judgment whether I had the capacity to realize this. dazzling %, although. It speaks volumes and delivered me back some.......
2016-11-01 07:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm having trouble understanding your question because of your grammar. I would say that the second girl is pretty immature or obsessive by saying she'll kill and die for you and change schools for you. Why would you leave the girl you really have feelings for? Maybe you need time to be by yourself! In future relationships you should really try to avoid having girls cry on your shoulder because that helps lead to infidelity.
2007-01-25 12:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by Cristina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that you have 2 girls whose feelings are on the line here. Ask yourself which one do you like best. Then choose her, and nicely explain to the other girl that you have made your choice and that you don't want to hurt her by stringing her along. Maybe she can still be a friend.
2007-01-25 12:19:59 · answer #7 · answered by Stevie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you dont like the second girl as much as she likes you wich is a lot. i think shes going to go on liking you unless you tell her you're not that into her. its not that fair to her if u don't tell her because for some reason she feels the same way. i would tell her the truth. it would be akward but think of how akward both of u would feel if she found out about the girl you really like.
2007-01-25 12:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by jg-love@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bugsy? You're showin' your age, Bucko! If you have to write and talk like that? Those Ladies are gonna see you for what you are. A Kid! And they ain't gonna stay around for long. Button up on the Kid Acting. Be yourself. And let nature take it's Course. It's a Woman's world. They decide who gets who.
2007-01-25 12:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 28 and divorced. I ended up breaking up with the chick that absolutely loved me. and married the one i was sprung over. theres not a day that goes by I wish i would have married the chick that truly loved me.
2007-01-25 12:13:53 · answer #10 · answered by ofgatorline_1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋