k so i love this guy and i have danced with him aat the dance and i want to go out with him but i dont have enough courage and i dont talk to him i just love him from afar but most ppl in my school kno i love him do i ask him out or becomes friends with him first and also my other friend that likes him is good friends with him shoudl i ask her to help me become friends with him plz help me!
2007-01-25 11:56:29 · 14 answers · asked by confused61394 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay first off you dont LOVE HIM that is that you like him alot and want to be with him. talk to him but dont tell him you love him because he doesnt have those feelings for you yet. it takes time to develop that feeling. me and my gf were going out for a month before we decided that we loced each other for real and would do anything to be together. no how do you expect for him to do anything for you if he doesnt know you. go to him tell him you like him but dont say you love him because in the end if it doesnt work you'll end up loving another guy, and another guy and another guy. is not good. just talk to him.
2007-01-25 12:05:01 · answer #1 · answered by MAX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wel cookie it kind of seems to me that he doesn't feel the same.....there is no such thing as loving someone from "afar", notice the quotes. You don't love him, you like him. Ask him out and realize it for yourself that he doesn't like you in return and then you'll be heart broken, then you'll move on. This is something that you're going to go through alone. Good luck sweetie.
2007-01-25 20:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out already, but be prepared that he just might not be interested..... you'll never know for sure if you don't take the plunge, and don't wait too long, or your 'other friend' may beat you to it.....
And no, don't ask her for help - she likes him too, remember? You take the first step, and let things just progress naturally from there. A helpful hint, though - don't come on too strong! Just be yourself and let things happen. And GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-01-25 20:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by Soni H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have danced with him once, never spoken to him, but you love him. Riiiiight!
Grow up, master the English language (especially punctuation) then try that whole "I want to fall in love now and nobody can talk me out of it" thing again.
2007-01-25 20:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! its better if you stage something and make it seem accidental, unless you just want to bump and jump. If you want something long lasting then you have to keep the edge of sophistication. Once you go and confront him, he will most likely say yes, but in the back of his mind he will think "I wonder how many other guys she approached like this".
2007-01-25 20:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by leaderofnow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off how good of friends are you with the girl that also likes him? if shes a good friend dont try to make a move it might compromise your friendship. as for geting him to notice you. start with just small conversation any time u can. then try for freindship. feelings have to grow.. if theres chemistry then it will catalize and happen fast.
2007-01-25 20:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by tony f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out <3 kuz if u become friendz wit him, then he's not goin out wit no1 then he might get a nother gf, and u dont want that 2 happen-lol u know how fast 2 ppl can get 2gether.
2007-01-25 20:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by ShelbyyBrookee. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so if you like this person you need to let him know. if hes worth anything, he'll be kind & understanding even if hes not interested in you. better to take a chance & miss then to stay on the side lines.... but you sound young maybe you shouldnt fall for anyone too fast... you have the rest of your life ahead of you.
2007-01-25 20:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by greckel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be his friend first..you have to know him better first..for me i prefer to let the guy make the first step and show the girl that he loves her..
Good luck
2007-01-25 20:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by not now 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean you really like him or you dig him. How can you LOVE someone that you hardly know. Don`t be silly. Don`t act desperate. Lust is often mistaken for love.
2007-01-25 20:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋