What to wear to a funeral?

Question

my dads best freind died and today is his funeral. im 17 and i dont know what to wear. whats appropriate and whats not?

Answer 1

That's very thoughtful of you to want to be there like that for you friend in a difficult time such as this. Wear a dark, conservative outfit. No cleavege, no belly showing (if you're female). Anything black, dark brown, navy, grey will do. If you have several piercings or wear outlandish jewellry, leave them at home for this day. Given that you are asking tells me you have a good head on your shoulders and are considerate of others so I'm sure you will make the right choice on your own. I'll say a prayer for your friend!

Answer 2

I have been to many funerals in my life and each one is a little different depending on the family of the deceased. Think about the family and how they dress for occasions like weddings, funerals, church, etc. Some people are more casual and some more dressy. If you truly have no idea: If you are comfortable in a skirt and pantyhose, wear something at least knee length or longer depending on your style, preferrably dark (does not have to be black). If you have a "suit jacket" or similar, that would be very appropriate. If you don't, a nice sweater or dress shirt would be nice. Funerals tend to be conservative for most people- not too much leg, not too much cleavage, etc. If you live where it is cold this time of year, dark dress pants would be very appropriate (also appropriate if you do not normally wear skirts) Make up is fine as long as it is subtle and not overdone. Funerals are no place to "show off" your beauty or anything like that. Remember to smile and if you don't know what to say to someone who is grieving just give them a hug and say that you are sorry. Funerals- less talking is usually better. Your physical presence is so comforting to those who are grieving- just go and be with your dad. . .

Answer 3

Obviously, nothing exceptionally bright or showy...this isn't a whore contest! (I know that sounds horrible, but it's the best phrase I can give.) You don't have to wear black, but something darker - navy blue, for instance - is appropriate. I would say that most stuff dress-code appropriate at your school is PROBABLY OK...but I don't know your school's dress code. Of you choose to wear a dress or skirt instead of slacks (jeans aren't great), make sure it's not something like a mini-skirt. I'd say that anything below about 3 inches above your knee is good. (you don''t want to show off your butt if you have to bend down.)

Pick something out and run it by your mom, or another adult you consider fairly responsible.

Answer 4

Things have changed. You can wear nice pair of pants(plack,navy,gray) and a button up collar shirt. Some people wear skirts and dresses(depending on the weather). My mom wore a sweater today to a funeral home.

I wore a dress to my uncles funeral, and a skirt to my grandfathers. And any colors can fly(unless they are really conservative people). I wore purple to a funeral. I've seen all sorts of colors.

Answer 5

Try a dark suit. If you do not own a suit, you should wear dark slacks, a dress shirt and a tie. Sorry about your friend's dad. I'll say a prayer for him.

Answer 6

Dress conservatively. Meaning if you have a nice dress that isn't too flashy. Or, you can wear a nice blouse and pants. Try black but if not, dark colours.

Answer 7

Something dark, to show that you sympathize with the family over the loss of a dear one. And, definetely, not a dress that catches attention: low neckline, etc.

Answer 8

I agree, conservative clothing, nothing super "trendy" or revealing. Colors should reflect the mood- so nothing that screams for attention. Jewelry should be minimal as well. The first answer is right on.

Answer 9

Don't wear anything too flashy or fleshy. A modest dress or skirt and blouse in a muted color.

Answer 10

Dark colors to show respect.