so ever since last week my boyfriend has been ignoring me. i try to talk 2 him but he just ignores me. i go down his hall 2 talk 2 him but once again he ignores me. the other day my best friend asked what was going on and he said that we broke up. and i didn't even know! what do i do? should i ask him? or should somebody else? my friend sees him more in her hall than i do and i am scared 2 ask so should i or should my friend?
2007-01-25 11:34:38 · 29 answers · asked by Stylin_SoftballSTar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would go right up to him with confidence and ask him...So what's up ? HOw do you figure we broke up?? this is the first I've heard of it?? what's with the "silent treatment"??
He'll then let you know how it came that hes giving you the silence*...Always go Straight to the Person and ask them face to face, that way there is No Mis-Communication. It will all get sorted...I hope your best friend who sees him all the time in her hall at school isn't the one that is involved somehow/someway* Will be interesting to see what your b/friend says to why he thinks you're broken up*~ And you should NEVER feel Scared to COMMUNICATE with anyone* Communication is one of the Keys to a long relationship*
Go straight to your boyfriend and ask him face to face*~ You have nothing to lose~and definately nothing to be afraid of~
GoodLucK*
2007-01-25 11:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask him. Be sure to show that you are confident and kind of have some attitude and things like so he doesn't try and take advantage of you being really upset. Then if he is all yes we are over couldn't you take a hint. Say something really smart in a come back like you have a crush on his best friend or something making him come off as a loser to make him feel as bad as he made you. Then walk away coming off as the better person before he walks away or does something really jerky to you.
2007-01-25 19:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should! It may be hard to hear, but your friend may have "talked" to your boyfriend and sent a forged message to him saying it was from you. Becareful and make sure you get the whole story from him, make him talk to you, ask him when you guys broke up and how it happened. Or what you could do is ask your friend to talk to him and then eavsdrop to make sure they're not telling him something that would further ruin your relashionship. Good luck!
2007-01-25 19:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Acro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he broke things off without telling you then he is scum.
Move on and don't think twice about him.
Don't get your friends involved. That just creates drama and want solve the problem anyway.
If you still in school, your swimming in a very crowded fish bowl.
Find a new one, there are plenty out there.
2007-01-25 19:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by together420yrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he already told your friend that you guys broke up why bother ask him again. Ignore him 2, silent treatment is the best. Dont waste your time.
2007-01-25 19:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by kathernva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend was a "man" and a gentleman, he would confront you to discuss things with you. If he chooses to play this guessing game and involves others without even consulting you first, I suggest you drop him. Be nice, but let him go. Hopefully, a real gentlemen will come by and ask you out sometime.
2007-01-25 19:41:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this guy doesn't want to have anything to do with you. Why are you pressing the issue? What don't you understand about this ignoring you and the silence? If you continue, you're gonna get him mad and get a bad reputation with other guys. Then no one else will want to talk to you. Stop it, already.
2007-01-25 19:39:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're scared to ask your boyfriend, it must not be much of a relationship. It's better to hear something directly from the source instead of through gossip. Ask him.
2007-01-25 19:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is just ask him directly. It is not fair to yourself to not know either way.
Always keep in mind that you are the prize, and if he is going to act like he isn't interested, he doesn't know what a great gal he is missing out on. :)
2007-01-25 19:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by Gostenhauser5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here....let me slap you so you can come out of your stupor....Where's your self respect?....He treats you like dirt and you should even care why?...It is what it is girl....and he's dogged you...You need to choose for yourself that he wouldn't get another chance with you even if he wanted one...Don't be scared...be indifferent....he isn't worth giving up your time even thinking about him....you need to move on and never look back....Good Luck. P.S....I bet I know why he isn't talking to you....he showed you his winky and you laughed because it was so small....Just don't let that get around....because it could be really embarrassing for him....lol.
2007-01-25 19:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋