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I know that I have low self confidence. I have a tendancy to get down on myself to the point where my thought are almost all negative ones towards myself. This happens 3 or 4 times a month for the past 6 months, really badly to the point where I'm moping around and on some occasions even reduced to tears (not full on crying though). I never had a girlfriend or any real friends before christmas, and this girl gave me her # on christmas and we've been talking. I thought this would make the episodes go away, but Everytime one little thing happens between us, (twice) i've slipped into one of my moods. I'm sick of it. What's wrong with me?
I'm 20

2007-01-25 11:34:21 · 4 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Health Mental Health

4 answers

You have something that is affects 1 in 3 Americans, depression.Six months ago, did something traumatic in your life happen? Was this sudden or gradual? You need to see a therapist to work on these issues. They affect people of all nationalities, cultures, and intellectual abilities. She or he may refer you to a psychiatrist for medicine. This is something that a competent person with a medical degree can help you. There's nothing wrong with you except that you need to do this as soon as possible. Do not feel bad, there are millions, like yourself, that are in the same boat. I hope you get the assistance you need!

2007-01-25 11:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Professor Bradley 3 · 0 0

I dont think you have a mental disorder maybe depression..

If you are feeling really low but dont know why then speak to a counciller explain exactly how you feel look at what was going on in your life 6 months ago something there triggered these feelings.

You also have convinced yourself you have low self confidence why is that?

This girl you met she isnt the cure for this she will help the situation as long as you dont mae mountains out of mole hills when some little silly thing happens. Stay away from negative situations and thouhgts think positive about yourself and this girl.

Never have negative thoughts about you you sound like your not happy with your life as it is you can change it.. Get out of the house join a gym or a class instead of talking on the phone with this girl meet her for a coffee or go to the movies..

Change your hairstyle colour even. get some new clothes treat yourself you deserve it..

Speak with your doctor he will advise you how to get this treated
its not as bad as it seems everybody suffers from this at some time in their life dont let it control you cope and deal with it..

Good luck stay focused and positive

2007-01-25 12:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Step 1. Go to a doctor for depression.

step 2 if the problem persists more than 30 days; E-Mail me. The problem may be more than depression. When I was oppressed then posessed by negative spirits as a child; they put all kinds of ideas into my head about being worthless, and wanting to kill myself.

2007-01-25 12:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by Rev. Two Bears 6 · 0 0

i'm no physician, although the first area you factor out, "He blames each and everything on the actual incontrovertible actuality that he had no Dad and his father and mom were divorced...." in all likelihood would not contain any form of psychological ailment. of direction, his father and mom being divorced and him no longer having a father is a deep-seated concern in his life. i am going to relate, as my concern is the same. i ought to signify a good communicate therapist for this, who must be able to assist him heal from the wear and the rejection and what no longer he nonetheless feels from this. As for this: "also he's very satisfied one minute then the subsequent he's depressed and indignant and distant," it ought to very well be an expression of how he's feeling because of the priority you reported above and under no circumstances a psychological ailment in any respect. those with Bipolar ailment do no longer regularly change moods from one minute to the subsequent; it is more desirable slow than that. although, personality complications do have more desirable generic and unexpected mood swings, fairly Borderline personality ailment. i can make an appointment with a verbal change therapist once attainable. If needed, they could refer your husband to a psychiatrist (who ought to prescribe drugs in the experience that your husband does, in truth, have an genuinely psychological ailment).

2016-10-16 02:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by alim 4 · 0 0

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