I have recently been making my complaint known regarding how it seeems that girls never want to give a nice guy a chance.
The messages I've got in return have been pretty much anything but helpful and often just a bunch of rhetoric like those from my last question at
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnNTQyTTnt3sUT3oy9otqULsy6IX?qid=20070123131521AAAEAcK
Can anyone actually give me any concrete ideas on what might work without comprosing who I am? Or, if you're willing to coach me somehow, that would be appreciated as well.
2007-01-25 11:20:18 · 20 answers · asked by onlyget1shot 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen.. I'm sorry edward but you if she doesn't like your ugliness... you just won't do.
2007-01-25 11:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by Wuuut? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls can be a heartless group of people.A lot of us base everything on looks and first impressions.We don't care how we are treated as long as we are seen with a guy that's hot.However,there are a few out there who look beyond the outside and are interested in you for who you are as a person. As one of the other people that answered said,try your church.Christian girls can be shallow to but for the most part we are more apt to look at the big picture of our life and what kind of person we want to spend the rest of our lives with.Be yourself,don't try to be what you think people want you to be because a real woman can see through a fake facade.So be you and be patient and you will find the right girl or she will find you.Let yourself be willing to be open to the possibility that the "type"of girl you see for yourself may not be the "type" that is actually what is meant for you.
2007-02-02 03:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by kipp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm a center-elderly married woman now, yet that is what i imagine about an outstanding guy: — He continually keeps his note. shows up even as he reported he ought to. — he takes a woman to eating places, videos, stay shows, besides as thrilling places to stroll, so a concepts as his budget will enable. — He would not embarrass her with blatant "public reflects of love". — He would not posture or play video games, lie, or do some thing dishonest. — maximum of his guy acquaintances are as respectable as he's. — He has a serious pastime in a recreation, playing a musical device, or another useful pastime. — If some thing is going incorrect on a date, he's ingenious about searching change transportation, yet another eating position, concepts to stay away from complicated people, etc. — He would not communicate about "love" except after a lengthy, lengthy time period. — His relatives are all tremendous people too. I under no circumstances cared all that a lot about vegetation or being said as alluring. I did care about thoughtful verbal change and an outstanding humorousness. If I were a woman who craved various of exhilaration quite than a sweet relationship, I too may have favored some wild egotist, for a lengthy time period besides. i became fortunate sufficient to marry one in all those tremendous adult adult males. It has lasted.
2016-10-16 02:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by alim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first thing you have to do is ask someone to go out. someone that you assume you may like. then you must get to know them and want to be around them alot. if this is part of it then you are on your way. you have to talk instead of saying you are not like the others that are just looking for good time all have to have that chance to find someone descent and that is hard for all. so try and keep trying you will find the right person and its just communication you seem to lack being stupid and yeling about you are not a dunce doens't alway go over. there are so many out there looking for a good nice guy also.
2007-01-31 14:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was told a long time ago by a 'playa' that the best way to get girls is to be yourself. I consider myself to be a nice guy and wouldn't try to portray myself any differently to attract females. Who I am is who I am. Who you are is who you are. In time you'll come to find out there are girls who will appreciate u for the person you r. Consistency in character and a positive attitude makes a "nice guy" a "wanted guy"!!
2007-01-25 11:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with you or your approach. Bad boys tend to turn women on. But as soon as a girl becomes a woman she will descover that a Nice guy is marriage material. Good luck!!! Remember the right girl will find you eventually.
2007-02-02 01:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by Spokie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in your last question you said you were an average guy right, well it doesnt matter if your an average guy, stand out a bit at first when your trying to get her to like you, be nice, talk about things you know interest her, stuff like that, it may be hard and you may not get the girl you wanted at first but you'll get someone, it may not be soon tho so dont count on that.
good luck!
Meg
2007-01-25 11:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, dude. whats the rush? you dying? you have time. just wait. if you sop searching so hard and just live day to day, you never know when she'll just turn up. my girlfriend did. i stayed single for 8 years. i looked in all the right and wrong places but could not find anyone. so i gave up and just went on to living day by day.less than 3 months ago i met my girlfriend. out of chance. if i was looking everywhere, i wouldve missed her. just hang loose.
2007-02-02 09:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by jjjesks75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that most good guys get crushes on girls whom are not interested.
There's so many available girls, but you guys want the girls that don't want you, because they want another person that probably don't want her.
And as a girl I can tell you, sometimes is harder to find a good friend than a lover, so most of us get good guys as friends, and then we can't date them without the possibility of losing them as friends.
It's hard guys.
xoxo
Gizeh
2007-01-25 11:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by Gizeh Z. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most people will say just be yourself, but you have to admit that it doesnt always work. just start with the basic, ask them how was their day. if you go to school together maybe you can talk about class or homework assignments. gently show them that you care about them. build up good communication with them and then take it from there. i hope this helps
2007-01-25 11:29:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the hardest part is to fine a nice woman that deserves a nice guy, took me 3 tries to get the right one. but its worth the wait..find a quiet church girl somewhere, they make the best long term ones..
2007-01-25 11:27:06 · answer #11 · answered by road runner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋