2007-01-25 11:15:40 · 7 answers · asked by Mz Toy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay I have a wonderful Latin man but most of my boyfriends before him were white. For most of them I was their first black girlfriend and this was the common sentiment among them:
White men are physically attracted to many black women but are turned off by their personality. They also don't tend to like the ghetto types (unless they themselves are ghetto). They are are intimidated by us because we tend to be assertive and because most men don't handle rejection rejection well they don't pursue us for fear of the neck and eye rolling lol. They have misconceptions about us i.e. we are difficult to please, have attitude, etc. They are also insecure about the way their friends and family would handle interracial relationships. And the prospects of having bi-racial children deters them from considering relationships with us. So there you have it in a nut shell. But I personally never had a problem dating any guy regardless of race because when a man gets to know you and your personality challenges their stereotypes of how black women are they begin to reconsider their hesitation. Men like women who are friendly, confident (not arrogant), intelligent, ladylike, polite, etc. If they see those qualities in a beautiful black woman, they won't be able to deny their attraction.
2007-01-25 16:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by Roni 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statically of Black men who marry only 7% practice miscegenation and only 5% are with White women. The statistics are lower among Black women. So my point is if 93%of Black men are marrying Black women why would I be concerned with the 7% that don't? And as you also mentioned the statistics are even lower among Black women. I'm for the preservation and promotion of Black love, Black unity and the Black family. I don't care why White men are not marrying Black women. Contrary to the sensationalized media The US Census speaks for itself. Also I can say personally I don't know any Black/White interracial couples personally and I know many married couples. In fact just this year I witness many weddings among my friends and family that were between Black men and Black women. So again why should I be concerned with such a small group of people?
2016-03-29 02:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by Flor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No doubt..I married a black woman. People think i'm crazy because I never really dated white women.
2007-01-27 14:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the white guys I know do and I live and work aroung mostly white poeple. They have really high standards for them, but what is wrong with that?
2007-01-25 11:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't they? Everyone loves black women.
lol
2007-01-25 12:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by ebonii_cuteee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does color really matter in this world I thought personality ruled looks!!
2007-01-25 11:27:26 · answer #6 · answered by ashley m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what color a person is.
2007-01-25 11:24:11 · answer #7 · answered by bubbba2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋