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Question

I'm a salesrep and travel all over the place. I have a customer I really like and asked her to dinner last week. It wasn't exactly like a date but we spent most of 2hrs talking about just stuff and not business. She was smiling, I made her laugh and we had a good night. At the end she said she had a good time. I didn't really push too much but I think I gave her signals that I liked her. I wanted to call her a couple days later but I don't want to create an awkward relationship so I chickened out and sent an email with some business related stuff and then told her I really enjoyed our time together and hoped we could do it again. I didn't get a reply to that and today sent another business related message which she did reply to. I'd swear she gave me some positive signs and I'm sure I should have called but tell me, what can I do to find out if I should persue this without creating a problem with our business relationship???

Answer 1

Why are you making it so complicated? Just tell her that you want to take her out to dinner something out side of business that you really enjoyed the conversation & just go for it. The emails with the business related stuff was a bad idea though... U shouldnt mix the business with your feelings. U will have to set the two apart. If you all are meeting to talk about business then let it be about business, nothing else. If you ask her out & she agree's then take her out & Dont mention business. Let it be about getting to know each other & possibly Building a relationship (a non business relationship)~

Answer 2

1. Never include business with pleasure. when you email her on the job keep it about work.
2. If you have her cell # then you text her something nice. Then explain later that you want to keep business, business and love to get to know her on a more personal level.
3. Do this before anything else occurs because you don't even know if there is someone in her life she has not bothered to share with you just yet

Answer 3

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Answer 4

You should call and ask her about it. Some companies don't allow their employees to include personal stuff in their company generated emails. It might be a matter of keeping the personal side and business side of things separate.
Call her up and ask her out again and see what happens.

Answer 5

It depends how it would affect your business relationship. The next time you see her you could always ask if she wants to get a bite for lunch to let you know. Then if she comes to you then you'll know. But then again you may be dealing with someone who is shy and doesn't want to make the first move. I would be really flirty with her and see if you get the same response back.

Good luck,
Kristy

Answer 6

Well, I would say just be patient. It might be that she didn't have a chance to reply back to your last message. When you see her in person agian just say you really had a good time and would like to do it agian sometime and see what she says. If she says she doesn't have time then she is not interested...

So, I would just leave everything the way it is until you see her agian in person. Email is not soo personal.

Answer 7

well about ur first business letter, is it necessary to reply? i mean do u ask for responds about the business or u just telling her sth? if not, she doesn't reply every email, it is just like ur friend invited u for a dinner and u sent her a note afterward, and she won't reply to that either obviously.
so dont be frustrated, moreover, she doesnt reply doesnt mean she is not interested, smart woman knows how to hold back to attract men

Answer 8

You did a nice, tactful job of leaving the door open...now it's up to her to decide if she wants to walk through it. You expressed an interest in seeing her again... if she's interested , she would respond to that. It could be that she might be interested, but she doesn't believe in mixing business with pleasure. If that's the case, I'd say she is one smart lady!!

Answer 9

Why not ask her out again? Just take her somewhere to dinner again. Some other place, and different food. See where that gets you. Call her though to ask her.

Answer 10

Nice. Really u shld havent have chickened out so now u need to get some guts and call her.