idk what to do it seems as though i have fallen back in love with one of my ex's and he apreantly still has feelings for me, he has quite a few girls crazy over him and he still says he only cares for me...and every single person i know hates him soo this is my secret alone..what do i do?....(i also have feelings for his friend but they seem to go away the more im w/ my ex)
2007-01-25 10:57:55 · 11 answers · asked by Lor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you both have feelings you guys should give it a try again! it's not the others that are going to be with him but YOU are, so who cares what others say!
2007-01-25 11:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by ♥AMO♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all make sure this isn't one of those "i dont want u but no one can have u" ordeals expecially if a lot of girls are on his case. but if what you say is true to your word u should make shure there are completly no feeling for the friend of the man u love then pursue him. if u truly love eachother it will last but if you get in this relationship and its pure lust theres nothing to gain. if you need extra help on a decition then do it old fation make a least of what you miss and dont miss abbout him
the ups in the downs about getting back with him and make sure not to exaturate or make up excuse for his faults or what hes done right. oh and i would make a list of why no one likes him maybe that will help ur decicion, what u dont see someone else just might.
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2007-01-25 11:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by love and basketball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are confused. Why do others hate him, maybe he's not good for you. Lust is fun, enjoy if you can do it and be safe. Clearly you are not in any kind of a stable place in your own mind to make a commitment to be somebody's girl. Spend more time with your friends. Be safe, take care of yourself. Do you think you need to hook up with someone? Stay home and read a good book, have a hot chocolate, talk to your grrlfren on the phone.
2007-01-25 11:08:43 · answer #3 · answered by Arlosmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What were the issues that made you break up to begin with? Could you handle those issues should they come back into play?
Why does everybody hate him? I would think, that within it self, is a huge red flag. Try to think logically not emotionally.
Good luck!
2007-01-25 11:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by together420yrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should think about whether or not the relationship is worth trying again. there's been many people who's gotten back together and stayed together while others have just broken up again. i would recommend not to do it again becuz that's a road u already walked down but the choice is up to u.
2007-01-25 11:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by nys1star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seem to get the picture of Two Trains, running head-on into each other. Frightening! Watch out!
2007-01-25 11:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys should go back out together if you still have feelings for one another
2007-01-25 11:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just casually date and don't engage in sexual activity during this age bracket.
HIV is at its peak and quickly goes around with young adults who engage in mindless, careless sexual activity during this period.
2007-01-25 11:05:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should remind yourself why you left him in the first place.
2007-01-25 11:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not give it a try?? What is it going to hurt??
2007-01-25 11:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋