we broke up but might get back together someday if our issues can be worked out....how do i cope in the meantime?
2007-01-25 10:57:53 · 12 answers · asked by Sara K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whatever you do dont jump into another relationship. involve yourself with work hobbies and friends. do not listen to any music, including radio, cds, ipod. these songs will only remind you of your lost relationship, it helps to cry alot. write a letter to your ex and list all of your feelings and then throw it out.
2007-01-25 11:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by tiracs69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, get your 2 closest friends (you know the ones you've had since Kindergarten) get in the car and drive. Just drive until you're all cried out and sick of driving then do a little touristy thing of the area you stopped in. Talk to the locals about the best food, shopping, best stuff to do that doesn't cost anything, etc. Take lots of pictures, eat lots of cheesecake and cookie dough ice cream, then after a day or two head home. It's VERY therapeutic. But even if you can't do that, a couple of martial arts classes or a few boxing lessons also works extremely well. Good Luck.
2007-01-25 11:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by jpiglet86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sara, Sara, Sara, It's Back to School, for you. Skip the Opening Part that it didn't work the first time. Forget the Chapter about being hurt. Ignore the Rules for wanting to be Happy. Let's just go straight to the Last Page. Where the Star of the Story, gets burnt, Emotionally. And never lives out her Dreams
2007-01-25 11:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could give you some good advice, but in all reality I can't. My [ex]boyfriend and I have said the same thing and we broke up 7 months ago and still have yet to get back together. It's really hard especially if you're the one with the deeper feelings and wanting to get back together more. The only thing I can say to you is don't give up on opportunity-don't reject new options, live and learn.
2007-01-25 11:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by spunkedup21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a hobby, get a pet. Get something or do something that makes you happy. And take all the momentos and stuff from your ex and give it to a friend to hold on to.
Try dating someone else. Or at least, go out with your friends. You may find someone else and realize that the next person is a better match for you.
2007-01-25 11:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by oh what a wonderful world... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find something responsible to do and make it subltly concentrated on waiting and being single. just take walks when your at the house beig bored and find a public kinda sorta wide open place to if you have a job or school and change yur brain to having that relationship and dont be bothered by how much time will go by and do yur work or schooling or what not ouside not frequently and just hope but dont make it to obvious to yourself. point is stay single
2007-01-25 11:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by j.b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweet heart...GOD bless you...it's so tough... ask me am the QUEEN of BROKEN hearts....
every single second would pass like a dagger to the core of your soul...try to get away as soon as possible...try to engage your self in activities ,go out with friends, BE strong...give your man space so that he realizes what he's missing and he regains his balance..... read MEN FOR MARS and WOMEN FROM VENUS...it would help ya alot.......am here if you need anything...take care....
2007-01-25 11:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by sweet cherry78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like no think about him and invite yr girlfriends over for a cope night
2007-01-25 11:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by Savannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some friends to talk to....
write a list of things you would like to do or learn about and start doing it to get your mind off of the loss
cry
2007-01-25 11:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by bertha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember the good times, think of the future, find a pasttime, find another guy.
hi;)
2007-01-25 11:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by just1more 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋