stated why they aren't interested in going out again? I have met many guys online and at the end of the date they said they enjoyed meeting me. I tell them the same and I send them an email afterwards. If I am not interested in them, I just say I don't think we have enough in common, if I am interested in them I thank them again for the evening and tell them I'm looking forward to hearing from them. Why can't these guys have the manners to answer my email one way or the other rather than be rude and leave me hanging. I find it impossible to fix whatever I am doing wrong on all these first dates when no one has the courtesy to tell what is wrong. It might hurt my feelings but maybe I could do something about it if I knew what was wrong with me.
2007-01-25 10:55:30 · 10 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand your frustration. Your emails sound too open-ended. If you want to know why a guy has decided he's not interested in you I think you should ask him straight out to tell you honestly. Otherwise, well--it's hard to tell someone bad news so most people avoid having to do so.
2007-01-26 00:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by AnOrdinaryGuy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe there is nothing wrong except your meeting jerks.
but ask yourself....do u ever lie? make anything up or make them believe you look or act on way and then in person your different? if so then that would be a serious turn off. maybe what you can do is before you set up a date with someone again, tell them your concern. just say you know if the date doesnt go well, or whatever, could u tell me if it was something specific so i am not in the dark. if they are jerks and say they wont why waste your time dating them.
other than the obvious, your getting too drunk, your farting, your asking about marriage and babies i suspect your not doing anything wrong. just keep trying, one day you will have a great date with your last first kiss
2007-01-25 11:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called being chicken sh**..It's may not be anything your doing wrong but your just not there type.It's just like when a man will do mean things to you in hopes you will break up with them cause they don't want to look like the bad guy.Maybe after the date let them know you will be emailing them and that you would like very much for them to respond either way.That way they will know a head of time what your plans are and how important it is to you they respond.I hope this helps.
2007-01-25 11:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because a Rude thing to do!
And are NOT worth your time!!!
Men do not have the monopoly on this, women are just as bad.
So hang in there, someone special, who has had his feelings hurt too, is looking for someone like you.
2007-01-25 11:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why should they have to? You don't have a contract when you meet for a date. Obviously if they don't respond, they're not interested. What do you want to hear? A list of what they don't like about you? What would be the point?
2007-01-25 11:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Immaturity, disrespectful, and spineless comes to mind. Good luck in the future.
2007-01-25 11:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by Darktania 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see why your "really fed up"
Its because your dating guys with out any manners.
Request GENTLEMEN next time.
thier out there.
2007-01-25 11:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by Mark K 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
want a date...my email is leeman_45801@yahoo.com
2007-01-25 11:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by gopher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys are smelly.
the smell like pee.
when boys go away
i say yippee!
2007-01-25 11:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by the ultimate lacrosse player 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Their loss, I'd say.
2007-01-25 11:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋