My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a month (broke up once about a month ago for like 2 weeks but then got back together). && he was great while we were in high school, but when we both got to college he started to hang around girls. in high school he did have a close friend that was a girl but mostly hanged out with guys. but now in college he hangs more with girls then with guys. there aren't a lot of them, but he would have one good friend and the rest of them would just get to knoe him. his one good friend wanted to meet me and my boyfriend wanted me to meet her too. but we never had a chance to coz ii was too worried that maybe he was cheating on me.
one thing to note is my boyfriend is very sensitive. he takes things too seriously and over analyzes things.
i'm maybe thinking the reason why he hangs out with girls coz in high school he never really had a true real friend to talk to about his feelings. his guy friend didn't want to hear it.
am i being paranoid??
2007-01-25 10:55:27 · 14 answers · asked by Miss Casey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They all cheat. What's wrong with you?
2007-01-25 11:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not meet her. I don't think if he was being "friendly" with her that he would even consider you meeting her. I would meet her and see how things go, watch how they interact with eachother...but I am sure they just friends. And don't question him about her or act jealous that will push you both apart...only if you suspect something.
Key signs:
You don't spend as much time together.
He acts different, and not as affectionate
Has friends that are girls and hangs out with them and not you, nor does he want you to meet them
Is very distant and doesn't care about how you feel
Makes excuses why he can't spend time with you....
....well those are a few besided the obvious.
Hope that helps. Just meet that girl and go from there. Whats ment to be is ment to be!
2007-01-25 11:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by Kristy S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a girl I knew in college. He boyfriend was a great guy and he really loved her. But he was also the type who had a lot of girls who were friends. Even though he never cheated on her, she ended up breaking up with him because of all the other girls he hung around with. She tossed aside a really nice guy because of her own insecurities. And for the record, after they broke up, he didn't start dating any of his friends.
2007-01-25 11:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by Angie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly, if he starts acting cagey. Not answering questions directly. Saying one thing, doin ganother etc. But if he was trying to steal money from you, clearly he has problems. Get rid of him. Now. Before he cleans out your bnk account. Change you rPIN on your bank card and passwords online, just in case..
2016-05-23 23:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of guys like to have girl friends more than guy friends...i think you just have to evaluate your relationship with him and determine if it meets your needs....if it does then is it ok for him to have other relationships? we cannot fulfill everything that another person needs in a relationship...that is impossible...so just look at your relationship ...that is what is important here, right? as long as you focus on developing what you have with this guy then that is what should be the goal....
2007-01-25 11:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by bertha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Greetings!
Some signs are:
Does he have a pulse?
Does he tell you that he ISN'T?
The most irrefutable sign that your boyfriend is cheating on you is that when you come over to his house unexpectedly, and barge into his bedroom, and he is in bed: with another woman, AND they are doing "it" and he sees you, eventually, and says: "Hi, honey! It's NOT what it looks like!"
HINT: It IS! and He IS!
Glad to be of assistance!
2007-01-25 11:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hiding his phone
smells like women
check his knees on the sly
back for scratchs
does he smell of sex?
but dont become to over the top u could just be paranoid
2007-01-25 11:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by nicky g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is too long, but clear signs someone is cheating on you:
You catch him having sex with someone else,
he is suddenly not available,
he smells like another women or man,
he is evasive,
he won't let you use his cell phone.
2007-01-25 11:00:25 · answer #8 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the key signs that a boyfriend is cheating on you??
HE WONT SPEND QUALITY TIME W/ U.
HE WILL SEEMS DISTANT WHENEVER HES AROUND.
2007-01-25 11:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sudden changes in behavior. for instance abruptly shaving, or changing into clean clothes only to be not goin anywhere, or all of a sudden having to work over, goin to his moms house to talk privately.
2007-01-25 11:03:08 · answer #10 · answered by tiracs69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If hes showering more than usual or wearing more cologne,
short on the phone.
2007-01-25 11:03:25 · answer #11 · answered by tony r 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋