Apparently there is thanks to everyone who answered my question. Yes, i'm young , but maybe not to young to know that was wrong.I did not know he was marrried at first, he told me after we kissed.After thinking about it i figured that if he didn't love his wife he should leave her. I'll admit he was hot , but he was also taken.Oh and before i forget i can't really go out to meet guys in clubs and such, i know calling someone is not the way to go, i promise to stop.
2007-01-25 10:46:50 · 16 answers · asked by seialie (pronounced sally) 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Surely if you are old enough to type out the question, although using poor grammar, you know there are nice people in the world. Don't be too lazy to look for them.
2007-01-25 11:07:56 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you did learn and will leave him alone now, but people aren't on here to baby you. They will tell you exactly how they feel. You may not like the way they express it, but they are allowed to say whatever they want. A lot of the really negative responses were probably from people that have been cheated on, or know someone that's been cheated on, and it really strikes a nerve to hear someone say "he's married and I'm falling for him." You are right, if he is so unhappy he should leave his wife, depending on why he's not happy, but he shouldn't be trolling for a new missus until he resolves the relationship to the one he's married to. If cheating spouses put half the effort into their marriages that they put into a fling, they wouldn't need the fling.
Good luck to you in the future.
By the way, what you are doing could be dangerous. And meeting guys in clubs isn't any better. You're better off meeting guys at school or work, or through other friends.
2007-01-25 11:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. Gosh, bummer for you. So why can't you go out and meet guys in clubs? Are you not of legal age yet? And getting involved with a married guy is very risky, and definitely not worth it. I'd break the relationship with the married man ifi were you. In fact, if anything, this married guy sounds like an ********. He should just go bum off and sort out his relationship first, instead of coming to you and giving you a lot of hassles too.
2007-01-25 11:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by Unefemme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of nice people out there. But there are also some not so nice people, you just have to be careful and find out who is who.
Shame on a married man for taking advantage of you and for not being upfront with his situation. Makes ya wonder how many other females he's done that too.
2007-01-25 11:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by momma mia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
toally not your fault, I think he should have told you in the first place. Yes, there is nice people out there and yes I am one of them. I had the exact same problem as you. Went out one night got smashes ended up with this hottie guy, and he called and 1 week after i found out he was married! So I left him alone and that was that.
2007-01-25 10:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by bejeweled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh, some nice people, but not many. And the guy is an ******. Unless he is separated and pending a divorce, then maybe he is a dateable guy. At least it didn't go anyfurther than a kiss, which is good.
2007-01-25 11:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of nice people you just need to make an effort and take the time to find them.
2007-01-25 10:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is to say that he wouldn't do the same to you if he left his wife.?Once a cheat always a cheat. I hate players.
2007-01-25 18:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from your question, you sound very young...as in underage and he sounds like he needs to go to jail. Be very careful, there are lots of strange strangers out there.
2007-01-25 11:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by Moma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey don,t worry sis,wasen,t your fault.you didn,t know the facts-right?and yeah there,s nice people out there,remember your still young and vonarable.you be ok.
2007-01-25 10:55:41 · answer #10 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋