i have guy friends, avalible guy friends and unavalible, i hang out w/ them and am comferdable with them, and i think the other way around, i would like to belive that im reasonably atractive, and in 8th grade that isnt that big a deal, so why cant i get a guy fiend, and please dont give me answeres like im to young because most of my friends have made-out and a feew have gone to 2nd adn 3rd base!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-25 10:42:19 · 34 answers · asked by cutie.sweetie.ellie. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
boys and girls are just learning about deeper relationships at your age...so it's really a difficult time for all of you....
if you are asking...how do i get a guy to kiss me??? since you obviously have lots of guy friends already...well believe me...it is not hard to get a kiss from a guy or any other physical attention you may want.... there will always be a guy who is willing...but if you are looking for a boyfriend as someone to be close to then you might have to wait a bit cuz that kind of relationship is not that easy to find...good luck
2007-01-25 10:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by bertha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're looking for a "commitment" or a "relationship" and the guys can smell the ultra seriousness in you. Eight grade boys are not looking to get tied down by any one girl who's that desperate. They want the liberty to pick the girl of their choice for that...if it's meant to happen "to them". You're in the 8th grade. Have some fun and enjoy your young life without complicating it with worrying about having a boyfriend. Yeah, some girls may be getting to 2 and 3 base, but I promise you they have problems that you could not even imagine to boot. Are you following me?
2007-01-25 10:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need a boyfriend. I felt that way all last year(7th grade). But as time wore on and i saw people getting dumped and getting all emotional, i decided i didn't care anymore. I have nevr had a boyfriend, and just because you don't have one doesn't mean you never will. At dances in stead of standing without a guy, dance with a friend, slow dancing is not as fun as it looks, in fact, it can be quite awkward(i know from experience). Try to do other things that will keep your mind off it.
2007-01-25 10:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, asking a question like that will only have people telling asking if you have anything wrong with you like : Are you ugly? Do you smell? Are you stupid? etc. Maybe it's best to ask someone who knows you well and will be honest with you. Possibly a sibling, friend, or a guy that you have no feelings for what so ever so you get a honest answer.
2007-01-25 10:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I'm not going to give you a lecture about how your too young. All I want to say is you've got plenty of time and there's no rush. Anyways, my advice to you is that if you like any guy in particular, just ask him out yourself. It's not illegal for a girl to ask a guy out for the first date. And hey, if you both have fun he'll probably ask YOU out for the second one. Hope this helps.
2007-01-25 10:57:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date people just to say ,"Oh yeah, Me and Kevin have already gone to THIRD BASE!" Love doesn't work that way. I've fallen in love with a girl and when I did it was wonderful. You'll know when love hits you.....unless your not looking for love..in which I would say go ahead a date for "scoring." Maybe you don't consider it bad, but I believe that it is a very shallow thing to do.
2007-01-25 10:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by time4potatoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 03:22:10 · answer #7 · answered by hocking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with more girls instead of dudes for starters. Guys know how other guys think, and if your always hangin out with a bunch of guys they might think your already taken, or that your really interested in the guys your hangin out with. Unless the guys your hangin out with are the ones your interested in, then you would need to tell them or give them a hint. Because guys are not mind readers.
2007-01-25 10:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down, it's better to learn to love yourself and figure out what you want so you don't have to settle for something less anyways. I never had a date all through juniour high or high school (!) and I'm doing extremely well now at 20. ;) Things will get better.
2007-01-25 10:50:32 · answer #9 · answered by Toga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe their all shy or you might be giving off a type of personality where they might be afraid of rejection by you. Either that or they just want to do the damage without going out with you and bounce
2007-01-25 10:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋