Today not to long ago, my boyfriend had broke up with me. And I think it is because all the pressure he is going through Im not so upset at the fact that he broke up with me it's that I'm worried about him.. but I do know that what he is doing which he is taking lots of Tylenols, yesterday he had taken 17 in one day and he is only 14 and on top of it he has a medical condition. He told me he thinks he has a problem and he promised me not to tell anyone about it, but to me I am worried and i don't want anything to happen to him because I care about him a lot...
I dont know what to do...I dont know if I should call his parents and talk to them about it, and if I did I dont know what I could say to them...?
I just hope he is gonna be okay.
2007-01-25 10:40:45 · 22 answers · asked by sweetkissez16 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Taking too much Tylenol can cause liver damage. I would phone his parents so that they can get him checked out, both physically and mentally.
2007-01-25 10:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by Bird Breath 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's a LOT of Tylenol - and people have died from overdosing on Tylenol. Too much can cause Kidney Failure I believe.
I'm not sure there's much you can do about him breaking up with you, however, someone should inform his parents about the amount of Tylenol he is taking as it could be potentially life-threatening.
You should call and tell them that although he's broken up with you, you do still care about him and right now you are worried about him because of the amount of Tylenol he is taking and you felt that they should be aware of it. Leave it at that. I'm sure you need comfort right now, but don't seek it from his parents - they will be concerned enough as it is that he is self-medicating this way. I think it would be a wise decision to inform them.
2007-01-25 10:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by Marvelissa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We're gonna call your EX "Nacho". He's nacho problem anymore. Do not try to get back together. You're a caring young woman- that does not mean you have to worry and suffer over him anymore.
Tylenol is one of the leading causes of liver failure. It's a slow and painful death. It gradually shuts down your whole body.
It is prolonged suicide. Would you report suicide threats to his folks? Of course! Be honest, blunt and concerned in your tone to his Mama. She understands worry. Then wash your hands of him literally. His behavior is not healthy for him or a relationship and you need to learn to watch out for these kind of signals in the future. I'm actually more concerned for you sweetie. You are so young and have so much wonder ahead- don't waste your time worrying- it won't change a thing except make you crazy.
I cared about my EX husband too- until I figured out the only reason why was because I was still afraid of him. Call his folks, tell them what you know and then be done with him.
He may never heal from the damage he's already done to his body- Nacho.
Take your time hooking up with a new guy. Be blessed.
2007-01-25 11:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by skayrkroh 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can empathize with your dilemma. You don;t want to break a confidence but at the same time you don't want to be responsible for anything that may happen as a result of his drug taking.
What you have to think about is that this person shared a secret with you and has burdoned you with worry and perhaps guilt for a lifetime if he dies and you could have prevented it.
In this situation and for preservation of self( and care for the B/f) I suggest you speak with your parents and have them discuss the matter with his parents. Asking that you not be identified as the source of information. His parents, once informed of the problem and how you are concerned wilkl find a way to approach him and get help. Good luck!
2007-01-25 10:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by Shelty K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
17 tylenols is way too much. Since he is only 14, you need to tell someone about it - If you know his parents or even the school teacher you should let them know immediately - before some serious damage happens. Dont worry about what he says to you.. remember you are doing this for his own good.
2007-01-25 10:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by answers7364 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A boy of 14 taking 17 Tylenol pills needs help. Someone should let a caring adult know that this boy needs help. Maybe you should tell your parents and they can tell his parents. Don't get the authorities involved just yet, it may not be that serious but an adult needs to know about his taking pills.
2007-01-25 10:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by midget 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Right now you're young and you think if you say anything you are betraying him. But in life any boyfriend is just that a friend and I know that I would try to get my friend some help. Because if something happens to him and you knew something was wrong but didnt say anything you could have saved his life. Can you live with that?
2007-01-25 10:48:42 · answer #7 · answered by D_4rm_da_B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should definitely tell either his parents or someone you trust, who could do something about it. If he's taking that many tylenols in one day, especially being that age, there is a good chance that he could overdose and it could kill him. Do something about it! wouldn't you want someone to help you if you were in that situation?
2007-01-25 10:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you DEFINATELY need to tell his parents about what is going on! Yes he might get mad but your saving his life. He could OD and die. This guy needs help and your the only one that can do it before it is to late. He will thank you later i promise. He has a serious problem and it is clearly deeper than just popping pills. Something else is wrong too. Get him HELP NOW!!!
2007-01-25 10:47:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you have to tell someone. Maybe his parents aren't the people. Maybe a teacher. How about social services. That way no one has to know you told and he gets all the help he needs.
2007-01-25 10:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋