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Everyone including my boyfriend are all 18 or over and it's my friends birthday so i can't be turned away! serious answers please! im not dressing like a complete sla g!

2007-01-25 10:36:20 · 15 answers · asked by ~jenni~hfc~ 2 in Society & Culture Etiquette

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I am in agreement with those who say act confident and self-assurred, maybe even a bit bored. That ought to do.
I and my three mates were asked for id earlier this week though. It depends on the club also. Admittedly we were acting a bit young and pratish--that must have made the difference.
--That Cheeky Lad

2007-01-25 16:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 0 1

A little more information would help. For example, how old are you now? If you're 17 and the place doesn't serve alcohol, you may have nothing to worry about - they may not even card you.

If, on the other hand, it's "18 to enter, 21 to drink" and you're 15 or 16 and look it, you could have a real problem.

Nevertheless, take control over the things you can: Find out what the dress code is, and be sure to follow it. The same goes for your hair and makeup: you don't want to look like you're done up for a prom. You want to look mature, a little sophisticated, and like you go into these places all the time.

Finally, take advantage of the fact you're in a group. Hopefully they're not strict on carding, and you can avoid direct contact with any of the staff.

Good luck, have fun, but be careful.

2007-01-25 10:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by nyboxers73 3 · 1 1

I had this problem when I was 17 and even used to get stopped when I was in my early twenties I miss it now! Firstly I would only advise this if you are 17 (any younger and I have to agree you are too young!) the key is to look confident and act the same way. If you are stopped and asked then say I'm really sorry I haven't got any ID I'm staying with a friend and I totally forgot. Whatever you do don't say phone my mum and ask her as this is a dead give away. Go in in the middle of the group so there is someone with you still if you do get turned back - someone that is willing to give up their night out! Also, don't argue with the door staff get aggressive or back chat be calm if you are asked for ID state your case and don't argue. Nine times out of ten if you are the only one that looks under age they will let you in - oh and it helps if none of you have ID because then it looks like you are old enough and don't think about taking it with you anymore.

Other than that the only other thing I can suggest is going somewhere that you are old enough to go to like a restaurant as if you get turned back it wont just ruin your night!

2007-01-25 11:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by suzi 3 · 0 1

DONT DRINK ALCOHOL

Say you are in uni and pick your favourite subject. Keep the same birthday and star sign only change the year and know the year.


Dont drink alchol inside either.

Anything else ok ie snogging and dancing.

Pick alternative scenes like goths or rockers or ravers... better chance there

Dont look nervous act confident.


Get a forged ID mailed from somone in thailand... several ones... Remember make sure its familiar stuff.

With a pencil lightly alter your birthday in your passport

So you can rub it out to avoid arrest by immigration.

Act more '

Not again, look Im in uni doing my degree, just look the shortass and have mates laugh and take the piss.


Don't beg thats a dead givaway.

use transfers on id

Make fake ID look old and battered a bit.

Being confident and flirting confidently and raunchily with bouncers may help.


Note this is if 17.


Though if mates 18th birthday bouncers will immediately suspect half of you

2007-01-25 10:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Don't try too hard is the best tip I can give you. Piling on makeup, tarty clothes and a wacky hair do will only draw attention to you and what you are really aiming to do is slip under the radar of the door staff. Once you're inside don't get hammered and act like an idiot or you'll get booted out and they'll remember your face so no chance next time. If your mum asks I didn't tell you this! ;-)

2007-01-25 11:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by Need2know 3 · 0 0

If you try too hard you will be immediately spotted so don't. If you are 16 or over the way you dress is probably not all that different from most 18 year olds. You should blend in with the crowd. Problem is your entire group will probably be carded since most clubs are aware that many teens look like they are 20 somethings. Perhaps you should suggest an alternative to club hopping.

2007-01-25 12:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0 2

Well, the best suggestion I would have for you is to NOT BREAK THE LAW. Not only could you get arrested, and your friends arrested, but the club could be in for some serious penalties and closure. Isn't waiting until you are legal better than a criminal record, or driving a bar out of business?

Take some responsibility for a change.

2007-01-25 11:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

Dress like you are 25 and successful, look classy and not cheap. If you dress like a tart you look young, if you dress classy you look pretty. Don't chatter or giggle too much in the queue as this makes you look like you are at primary school.
Also be confident - this is the main trick to getting away with stuff. Don't look guilty - this will give you away.

Enjoy the party and don't drink as that is against the law (wink).

2007-01-25 10:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by monkeymanelvis 7 · 0 2

No self-respecting lady ought to out themselves through answering "particular" precise right here, yet relax particular it does take position. How else do you imagine of adult males get into one-nighttime-stand situations? the girls at the on the spot are not thoroughly oblivious to what they're transferring into.

2016-10-16 02:46:42 · answer #9 · answered by chardip 4 · 0 0

The only suggestion I have is to WAIT! These clubs are specifically made for 18 and over. You are not of age, so you should not be there. Stop pushing your life ahead, you will get there soon enough.

Maybe you should be hanging out with younger people.

2007-01-25 10:44:31 · answer #10 · answered by I_Love_Life! 5 · 5 1

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