men can you love someone one week and not the next is it possible for feeling to change like that?
2007-01-25 10:15:29 · 29 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes - it called not knowing what they want and doing most of thier thinking below the waste.
Get him out of your head! Go read a book or study. Do something to improve yourself and take FULL control of your life. Guys like girls who are confident, have good morals, and life long accomplishments/goals. If you have these things guys will be tripping over themselves for you.
You are still very young. Don’t learn things the hard way by playing stupid games. You'll only end up hurt. Love is a serious thing TAKE IT SERIOUSLEY AND TAKE YOUR TIME!!
2007-01-25 10:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ralph 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a male, but I have experienced this phenomen once or twice. I've heard it call blow-torching by John Gray. When a man comes on HOT HOT HOT and pursues, and then suddenly turns OFF and goes cold. It has something to do with some men loving the chase TOO much so when they actually 'win' they lose impetus, get bored and run the other way.
The only way to really prevent this is to PACE the speed of things. Don't give too much, too soon. Don't fall for the pretty words as they are not promises and kisses are not contracts.
Look at dating like a vehicle: men are the gas and steering wheel and women are the brakes and door handle/window.
K.
2007-01-25 10:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by Ken K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are so straight-forward. If it's hot-n-cold? it's just a front. Get out Now! Or you'll be stuck, all alone, soon. Try visiting Happiness Lane. Look up where Respect Blvd, is. And stay completely away from Disrespect Drive. Luck!
2007-01-25 10:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW - So what did you do??
OK only kidding, just said that to get your attention
If someone managed to find love in a week and then loose it the next I can only assume it was LUST and NOT real LOVE.
This word LOVE is brandished around far too easily.
So get over him and move on, chalk it up to experience as I am sure life will have a few more in store for you, both good and bad.
All the best
2007-01-25 10:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People all to often say they love someone when that person makes them feel good. That doesn`t necesarilly mean they love them. Love is feeling you get when you want to be with that person all the time. While you are at work you think about them. On your way home you can`t wait to be with them. When things aren`t perfect they blame the other person(foolish). Often what they thought was love was just good sex and a little bit of trust. Look at it like this they feel good(they think there in love) + when they don`t feel good (they don`t feel love). Pretty stubid eh. People shouldn`t say they love someone UNLESS they truly mean it. If you really do love someone its not because their rich, working or good looking, you love them reguardless. I know how it feels it happened to me. Call if you like.
2007-01-25 10:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend tells me I do that.
My ex partner was a ***** from hell and put me off of women for a long time.
Most of the women I have met since the ***** left have tried their best to get their hooks in right from the beginning which is a sure way to frighten me off.
My present girlfriend is different, she is patient and allows me to have some space and so she seems to be succeeding where others have failed.
2007-01-25 10:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the man.
Some men might others might not, but one week?
not many would lose love in only a week, thats just a tad un natural.
perhaps the guy never blew hot in the first place.
2007-01-25 10:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes we can be totally all loved up one week and the next week hav no time at all for women . its wierd . i felt like that towards my new girlfriend after i fell out with my ex . i felt as though i was confused one week and ok the next or vice versa and i would say i still feel the same sometimes and thats been 10 months weve been split up . good luck with him but stick with himhe will be worth it . x
2007-01-25 10:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by bob a builder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a normal thing for a guy to do no. It sounds like you've had a guy that like playing the field and tries to get every woman he can in bed. If they don't he moves on, even if they do sleep with him he moves on. You need to set your sights a lot higher.
2007-01-25 11:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are immature until the age of 25. Just support them and forgive them of the stupid things they do (trust me I know). Our feelings change alot, but we always come back to what we love.
2007-01-25 10:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by infobrokernate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋