I worked hard through University and gained my BSc and now Im doing a part time MBA in an administrative job!
People have indirectly knocked me down, ive been rejected from interviews...
When am I going to find my dream job? =(
2007-01-25 10:00:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Look, I have a suggestion. This is a self-image-betterment exercise.
Step 1. Grab the classifieds.
Step 2. Highlight ANY jobs that have anything to do with your degree, even jobs for which you do not qualify.
Step 3. Double highlight the top-ten most important listings to you.
Step 4. Make a list of the top ten in order from the least desirable to the most desirable.
Step 5. Make a specific resume for the top 3 listings. Research these jobs on Monster.com -or- Careerbuilder.com and use key terms in your resume.
Step 6. Mail these out, and call 7 days later. Call until you get a definate yes or no from someone. Make a list of the no's and why they told you no. DO NOT place calls to the same employer closer than three days apart.
You can do this!!!!!
Tell yourself every morning in the mirror:
"I can do this!!! I can do this!!!"
Repeat this phrase at least ten times!
Verbalizing is a psych. thing which really works!!!!
Good Luck!!!
(Oh, You can SOOOOOOOOO do this!!!!!!)
2007-01-25 10:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by melomego 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just lack self esteem. If you think you're just not worthy, then people around you will treat you like that. Work on your self esteem and don't take it personal when you get rejected from interviews. Loads of people get rejected, that doesn't mean they're not good enough.
2007-01-25 18:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by chocolatebunny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone feels that they are not good enough for something or another every once in while, but if you are always feeling that way you may have depression, and should get professional help.
Also not everyone will always like you, keep trying till you find something you enjoy doing and not all waking up in the moring feeling like your dragging yourself there everyday.
2007-01-25 18:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by borillion_star 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its possible that people are stepping on you because you seem like someone affected by it.
Even if you are not confident...you need to act confident. You need to hold your head up high and believe in yoruself. And you need to set reachable goals and strive for them. Decide what you want in your life and accept nothing less.
And...untill you get a job you love...learn to be happy in the jobs you can get. Work to live.....dont live to work.
2007-01-25 18:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by aarondarling 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww...you poor thing. At least you have you BSc..I'm working on it right now-and it is not a peice of cake :0)....your time will come, don't worry it is just a matter of time :).
2007-01-25 18:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is true that the way you perceive the world is also the way the world perceives you. Learn to love and you will be loved.
2007-01-25 18:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by Mary Anne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyones good at something u just have to keep trying.and every1s good and never feel that way b/c ur specail in something u just never found that right something yet
2007-01-25 18:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by leelee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
EVERYDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-25 23:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋